If you trust your friend then you believe him when he says she's a manipulator. So maybe ask yourself why you're still crushing on someone like that. Seems like one of these people isn't worth your friendship. Maybe you need to figure out which one.
Hon I have had absolute nightmare roommates of all colors, so yes I 100% know how that feels. I am speaking from experience when I say this is unlikely to make you feel better. However, if you're set on it, then I would write it down and send it as a text or an e-mail. If you confront him in person you may not be able to get out what you want to get out and there's no guarantee he'll stand there and listen to you. He may well make excuses and blame you for things and that stands to make you even more upset.
Bro don’t justify what she’s done because you’ve made mistakes I did the same thing and my ex wife cheated on me more then once there’s obviously something going on you need to leave or accept the fact that your wife wants some other dude and is most likely cheating on you she would have slept with him that night she was calling him you need tj gain some self respect you deserve better then that I’m sorry that happened to you it’s one of the worst feelings in the world Ik but you gotta leave her
Maybe its time to find someone who makes you the priority. Seems like there is one to many in your marriage. Seems like the perfect time to bow out and find a partner
I think I should have done that before, because he goes long periods without eating and then he eats a lot. But all the comments made me see that a breakup is the easy way out.
My advice is to always just make sure you are doing the procedure for yourself. Fixing an insecurity to make yourself feel better, and not to make you feel like more of an equal to him. And apart from actual procedures, may be helpful to talk about this in therapy. There’s no use in wasting energy on negative comments or looks from strangers. Always remember that those comments and looks say more about those people than they do about you or your looks.
Has he? You've said he supported you through a crisis, which is great, but it also sounds like he's only supportive when it's a cocoon with the 2 of you inside.
Have you been out with his friends at all? Have you met them? Have you guys gone out to a restaurant to eat throughout the 6 months you've been together?
Maybe = I don’t want to but if we absolutely must then sure.
If you trust your friend then you believe him when he says she's a manipulator. So maybe ask yourself why you're still crushing on someone like that. Seems like one of these people isn't worth your friendship. Maybe you need to figure out which one.
Hon I have had absolute nightmare roommates of all colors, so yes I 100% know how that feels. I am speaking from experience when I say this is unlikely to make you feel better. However, if you're set on it, then I would write it down and send it as a text or an e-mail. If you confront him in person you may not be able to get out what you want to get out and there's no guarantee he'll stand there and listen to you. He may well make excuses and blame you for things and that stands to make you even more upset.
Bro don’t justify what she’s done because you’ve made mistakes I did the same thing and my ex wife cheated on me more then once there’s obviously something going on you need to leave or accept the fact that your wife wants some other dude and is most likely cheating on you she would have slept with him that night she was calling him you need tj gain some self respect you deserve better then that I’m sorry that happened to you it’s one of the worst feelings in the world Ik but you gotta leave her
Maybe its time to find someone who makes you the priority. Seems like there is one to many in your marriage. Seems like the perfect time to bow out and find a partner
I think I should have done that before, because he goes long periods without eating and then he eats a lot. But all the comments made me see that a breakup is the easy way out.
My advice is to always just make sure you are doing the procedure for yourself. Fixing an insecurity to make yourself feel better, and not to make you feel like more of an equal to him. And apart from actual procedures, may be helpful to talk about this in therapy. There’s no use in wasting energy on negative comments or looks from strangers. Always remember that those comments and looks say more about those people than they do about you or your looks.
Just tell her that you really like her and ask her out on a date. Avoid making any grand gestures because that is inappropriate at this stage.
Do you think Op and her husband can visit her family in her country since it was necessary? Did that fix it?
Has he? You've said he supported you through a crisis, which is great, but it also sounds like he's only supportive when it's a cocoon with the 2 of you inside.
Have you been out with his friends at all? Have you met them? Have you guys gone out to a restaurant to eat throughout the 6 months you've been together?