Never ever discuss each other’s previous relationships and who they were with Never ask your partner any questions at all relating to their previous relationship and partners (So for example- Not their previous partners names, not how long they were together, not the reason that they broke up,) NOT ANYTHING AT ALL. Also Never answer any questions if your asked a question by your partner in regards to your previous partners and relationships.
Never ever discuss each other’s previous sexual relationships or experiences or who they were with Never ask your partner any questions In relation to this and also Never answer ever if your asked a question by your partner- NOT ANYTHING AT ALL
Never ever ask for your partners body count and never answer if your partner asks you yours
Always guarantees the quick train to the end of the line in a relationship due to it ALWAYS causing issues of jealousy and more so insecurities in a plethora of different ways this being one of them.
You need to try your hardest now to forget everything about this otherwise it will consume you to a point that it’s all you will think about and it always destroys the relationship.
If you search my profile username and use other search terms like ‘history’ or similar I have lots of posts where I go into a lot of details as to why asking your partner these types of questions and having the answers destroys your relationship In various different ways
He can go through my phone too, we don’t care about that, that isn’t pushing our boundaries. I got him to do it in front of me, my wording may be bad but I also don’t understand the situation. I guess better communication on the list but as for bounds, he has told me I am free to go on him phone. And he was the one showing me things when he asked. The only thing I checked the first time was whether he outright cheated.
That’s totally where I’m coming from instinctively, I think. It just feels a bit unnatural for me personally, to feel like I’m controlling any aspect of his life. But you’re right though, it was necessary to make a big deal out of.
I did and they they do not have any social media, at least not the husband as I don't even know the wife's name. Or if they do they must have private accounts with pseudonyms.
You are toxic in this relationship. You are way too controlling and demanding that she tells you every detail right down to the minute when some guy might have liked an IG post is really way to controlling on your part. You do have trust issues you need to work on. And the way you treat you bf is near abusive. Please get yourself help.
No one is arguing about what he's “entitled” to. He can leave for any reason he wants. This is a shitty reason to leave, but the issue is he's not even leaving. He's just making OP feel bad about her body for no reason.
and her Mom has already made it clear she doesn't want to raise another one of her children.
Never ever discuss each other’s previous relationships and who they were with Never ask your partner any questions at all relating to their previous relationship and partners (So for example- Not their previous partners names, not how long they were together, not the reason that they broke up,) NOT ANYTHING AT ALL. Also Never answer any questions if your asked a question by your partner in regards to your previous partners and relationships.
Never ever discuss each other’s previous sexual relationships or experiences or who they were with Never ask your partner any questions In relation to this and also Never answer ever if your asked a question by your partner- NOT ANYTHING AT ALL
Never ever ask for your partners body count and never answer if your partner asks you yours
Always guarantees the quick train to the end of the line in a relationship due to it ALWAYS causing issues of jealousy and more so insecurities in a plethora of different ways this being one of them.
You need to try your hardest now to forget everything about this otherwise it will consume you to a point that it’s all you will think about and it always destroys the relationship.
If you search my profile username and use other search terms like ‘history’ or similar I have lots of posts where I go into a lot of details as to why asking your partner these types of questions and having the answers destroys your relationship In various different ways
He got you once. He will hit you again. He will hit your pets. He will hit your child. Leave.
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My boyfriend backed out of our driveway when my dad was walking the dog, and he didn't here my dad yelling “stop”. It's my dad's fault, not his.
He can go through my phone too, we don’t care about that, that isn’t pushing our boundaries. I got him to do it in front of me, my wording may be bad but I also don’t understand the situation. I guess better communication on the list but as for bounds, he has told me I am free to go on him phone. And he was the one showing me things when he asked. The only thing I checked the first time was whether he outright cheated.
That’s totally where I’m coming from instinctively, I think. It just feels a bit unnatural for me personally, to feel like I’m controlling any aspect of his life. But you’re right though, it was necessary to make a big deal out of.
No I’m talking actual poly people who try to recruit as many monogamous people as they can
1) It's messed up that your husband doesn't trust you enough to tell you the truth.
2) Ask the babysitter
Btw if you want to do the fancy quote thing where it’s separated just add a (>) sign before the quote
I did and they they do not have any social media, at least not the husband as I don't even know the wife's name. Or if they do they must have private accounts with pseudonyms.
You are toxic in this relationship. You are way too controlling and demanding that she tells you every detail right down to the minute when some guy might have liked an IG post is really way to controlling on your part. You do have trust issues you need to work on. And the way you treat you bf is near abusive. Please get yourself help.
No one is arguing about what he's “entitled” to. He can leave for any reason he wants. This is a shitty reason to leave, but the issue is he's not even leaving. He's just making OP feel bad about her body for no reason.
You need a therapist not a boyfriend
You’re clearly not ready for dating/relationships