You have been given a gift from the gods my friend
Only 2 months should be an easy annulment
She doesn't remember much of what happened is either a lie or that means she could very well have had sex with this guy or others earlier and then again that morning.
Probably has hung out after work with gay guy before and already met this friend and participated in some erotic activity which is why she was so comfortable to do it with him in your own home….I mean you are in hospital and she is screwing someone else straight away.
You shouldn't be ashamed of yourself for wanting to sweep this but you should be angry that it's even a consideration , your standards in a wife really should be higher , I understand marriages can get dull but two months.
Yeah I’m a bit frustrated that’s for sure. In person though she is great. I get some people aren’t great over the phone but she always has been. I’m gonna try to set something up with her soon if she will ever answer the dang phone
Because she's already in a position where she is fearing for her safety and we are taught, from a very young age, that if a man is making you scared, you need to NOT make him more angry. The same reason you give a theif with knife your money…its the safest option. Not exactly difficult to understand, the victim blaming is quite unnecessary.
Two weeks is a long time when you’re visiting someone. There are only a very few people id want to see everyday for two weeks.
Ask her which days she’s sure she can get off from work, and plan to be there those days. On the other days, go somewhere else…your shorten the trip altogether.
I actually think you should take a break from relationships. I think you’re confused about how to pick them and how to conduct yourself within them. I went through an abusive relationship right before I got sober in the 90s the early 90s and I stayed away from dating for a year and I went to therapy and stayed sober. And it was still really hard when I started dating because I didn’t know how to behave or how to process things.
And the fact you went directly to an older man concerns me to you have an issue where you like some sort of control. You would say you don’t, but your choices say otherwise. So you might take some time and taking a break for yourself from relationships and learning how to date casually how to treat yourself well had to have others treat you well and how to treat others will yourself. Good luck to you.
Huh the 19yo girl with nipple piercings and posts for relationship advice on Reddit is wearing shitting quality jewelry. I never would have guessed.
You have been given a gift from the gods my friend
Only 2 months should be an easy annulment
She doesn't remember much of what happened is either a lie or that means she could very well have had sex with this guy or others earlier and then again that morning.
Probably has hung out after work with gay guy before and already met this friend and participated in some erotic activity which is why she was so comfortable to do it with him in your own home….I mean you are in hospital and she is screwing someone else straight away.
You shouldn't be ashamed of yourself for wanting to sweep this but you should be angry that it's even a consideration , your standards in a wife really should be higher , I understand marriages can get dull but two months.
Why are you with him? He has some major issues and what sounds like a porn addiction.
You hate yourself and have some things to work on too.
Therapy is good, but y’all are awful for each other. Stop being in a relationship out of loneliness, as you’re settling for trash.
Yeah I’m a bit frustrated that’s for sure. In person though she is great. I get some people aren’t great over the phone but she always has been. I’m gonna try to set something up with her soon if she will ever answer the dang phone
Red flag. ?
Talbots gift card – the last coffin nail, lol.
Because she's already in a position where she is fearing for her safety and we are taught, from a very young age, that if a man is making you scared, you need to NOT make him more angry. The same reason you give a theif with knife your money…its the safest option. Not exactly difficult to understand, the victim blaming is quite unnecessary.
Two weeks is a long time when you’re visiting someone. There are only a very few people id want to see everyday for two weeks.
Ask her which days she’s sure she can get off from work, and plan to be there those days. On the other days, go somewhere else…your shorten the trip altogether.
I actually think you should take a break from relationships. I think you’re confused about how to pick them and how to conduct yourself within them. I went through an abusive relationship right before I got sober in the 90s the early 90s and I stayed away from dating for a year and I went to therapy and stayed sober. And it was still really hard when I started dating because I didn’t know how to behave or how to process things.
And the fact you went directly to an older man concerns me to you have an issue where you like some sort of control. You would say you don’t, but your choices say otherwise. So you might take some time and taking a break for yourself from relationships and learning how to date casually how to treat yourself well had to have others treat you well and how to treat others will yourself. Good luck to you.