I don’t mean to be mean or anything. If you’re in a marriage where just calmly communicating your needs is going to cause a blowup that tells you something. You’re walking on eggshells in your own home. It’s not like you’re telling him you want to have an affair or you’ve emptied the bank account. Your just saying that you want some personal time (which will make you a happier and better mother and wife). Maybe a therapist could help you find the best way to bring this up without causing a blowup.
Exactly this!
It’s so worrying that she just won’t accept the gravity of what she’s done. It doesn’t matter that her intent wasn’t to harm him, she DID.
No you're not. He's definitely got an unhealthy relationship with food.
One of your children is heavily affected by him, she is already at the start of an eating disorder.
What you want to do is right. Your children shouldn't be denied eating normal foods.
So your a cop… and you feel the same way? That she could be in danger? That is so messed up
I don’t mean to be mean or anything. If you’re in a marriage where just calmly communicating your needs is going to cause a blowup that tells you something. You’re walking on eggshells in your own home. It’s not like you’re telling him you want to have an affair or you’ve emptied the bank account. Your just saying that you want some personal time (which will make you a happier and better mother and wife). Maybe a therapist could help you find the best way to bring this up without causing a blowup.
Stop telling people that kicking her out is illegal and just get a fucking lawyer to help you legally remove her from your place.