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There is a simple solution here. Ask dad is he is sorry for what he did to your sister. If the answer is yes, tell him to write her a letter but be prepared that she will ignore it. Furthermore insist on not discussing this topic again. The beef is between dad and sis and you refuse to be a flying monkey. Urge the rest of the family to stay out of it as well.
If his answer is no then tell him to leave her alone and that you won't discuss this with him any further. Again urge family to stay out of it.
He can't pressure anyone if everyone gets up and leaves each time he brings up the situation, wich is a problem of his own making.
That's just not how adult relationships are supposed to go. You need to communicate. Aside from that's just nasty for wayyy too long, this could also be a health problem that your gf isn't aware of.
It's ridiculous to me that you spent 6 years thinking she was gross down there, and she probably spent 6 years asking herself if something is wrong, and neither of you said anything. 6 years is usually like, talking about marriage stage.
That being said your pity sex offer is pathetic. His read through the manipulation and also it's so unhealthy. You 100% didn't want it at this moment. What is he gonna do crying because he wants to leave you and you are a bag of potatoes laying there faking everything just not to be single ?
Thats lovely to hear!:) unfortunately he isn’t close to his parents but he is close to his sister and brother. I’m to meet all of them like a whole family dinner which is very weird to me. Thank you for the wishes and happy anniversary(soon)! 🙂
You’re holding women to a monolith. Yes, there are women who like very hot assholes. Just like there are guys who like crazy women who might cut their dick off. Doesn’t mean there aren’t other people out there for you.
I’m 35, never had an issue attracting women and never felt the need to hold misogynistic views in order to attract them.
Find yourself, discover who you are, don’t try so hard and you’ll find it’s easier.
I mean the guy told me in the past that he loved that I was straightforward and bold with him.. he thought it was hot. But yea maybe he was just saying that
I think your wife is having a crazy emotinal overreaction to you having a bio child. She has lost her damn mind and assumes you will love your bio child more, so she has to leave to protect her children. She's trying to buy you off so you'll let her ride off into the sunset with the kids. She assumes you will let her, because your bio kid matters more to you, and you'll lose interest in the other kids. If it were me, I wouldn't let her take my kids across the country. She's going to bring them every month? No she's not. That doesn't even make sense. Again, she's lost her damn mind.
Fight her on it. Fight her on all of it. Don't let her leave with your children in exchange for a payout. If you do, she'll be right about you.
I'm like 99% sure that's rape. No means no.
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It is always concerning when people regret doing things when they're bind drunk. You can end up asking yourself, what's next?
There is a simple solution here. Ask dad is he is sorry for what he did to your sister. If the answer is yes, tell him to write her a letter but be prepared that she will ignore it. Furthermore insist on not discussing this topic again. The beef is between dad and sis and you refuse to be a flying monkey. Urge the rest of the family to stay out of it as well.
If his answer is no then tell him to leave her alone and that you won't discuss this with him any further. Again urge family to stay out of it.
He can't pressure anyone if everyone gets up and leaves each time he brings up the situation, wich is a problem of his own making.
Dude WHAT?! You're 36.
That's just not how adult relationships are supposed to go. You need to communicate. Aside from that's just nasty for wayyy too long, this could also be a health problem that your gf isn't aware of.
It's ridiculous to me that you spent 6 years thinking she was gross down there, and she probably spent 6 years asking herself if something is wrong, and neither of you said anything. 6 years is usually like, talking about marriage stage.
Right? Next time it won’t be a cookie, it’ll be antifreeze.
That being said your pity sex offer is pathetic. His read through the manipulation and also it's so unhealthy. You 100% didn't want it at this moment. What is he gonna do crying because he wants to leave you and you are a bag of potatoes laying there faking everything just not to be single ?
the way they used words like “gently” really makes it read like a fetish post
Thats lovely to hear!:) unfortunately he isn’t close to his parents but he is close to his sister and brother. I’m to meet all of them like a whole family dinner which is very weird to me. Thank you for the wishes and happy anniversary(soon)! 🙂
You’re holding women to a monolith. Yes, there are women who like very hot assholes. Just like there are guys who like crazy women who might cut their dick off. Doesn’t mean there aren’t other people out there for you.
I’m 35, never had an issue attracting women and never felt the need to hold misogynistic views in order to attract them.
Find yourself, discover who you are, don’t try so hard and you’ll find it’s easier.
I mean the guy told me in the past that he loved that I was straightforward and bold with him.. he thought it was hot. But yea maybe he was just saying that
I think your wife is having a crazy emotinal overreaction to you having a bio child. She has lost her damn mind and assumes you will love your bio child more, so she has to leave to protect her children. She's trying to buy you off so you'll let her ride off into the sunset with the kids. She assumes you will let her, because your bio kid matters more to you, and you'll lose interest in the other kids. If it were me, I wouldn't let her take my kids across the country. She's going to bring them every month? No she's not. That doesn't even make sense. Again, she's lost her damn mind.
Fight her on it. Fight her on all of it. Don't let her leave with your children in exchange for a payout. If you do, she'll be right about you.