I sometimes find myself apathetic, or even resentful, at setting aside my own needs so frequently to make her feel not even good, just less bad.
Find a moment where she's receptive to communication and not an emotional mess, then tell her what you just told us. That you're more than willing to be there and be supportive, but there needs to be a limit on how much you can provide.
It's not an unreasonable request – you are a human being with limits, not a proverbial punching bag for her to unload her daily stresses on.
I sometimes find myself apathetic, or even resentful, at setting aside my own needs so frequently to make her feel not even good, just less bad.
Find a moment where she's receptive to communication and not an emotional mess, then tell her what you just told us. That you're more than willing to be there and be supportive, but there needs to be a limit on how much you can provide.
It's not an unreasonable request – you are a human being with limits, not a proverbial punching bag for her to unload her daily stresses on.
Strawberries don’t grow on trees lol