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Its less about the smarts and more about being financially stable. Having a degree improves your chances of having a stable life financially much more than people here are willing to admit. If someone is financially stable without a degree then thats cool too and degree is obviously not required in that case. But lets be honest, financial stability is not easy to come by without a degree
I think you're absolutely right about OP using “son” would be the beginning of the change in their dynamic. I think it could be as “easy” as just saying “I'm really glad you're here” at the dinner table, in the car, watching TV together, whatever. It doesn't have to be a big moment if that's something OP is worrying about. It doesn't have to be perfect either, life never is.
And I'm glad to hear another family had “Love you, kid.” It's something I passed on to my daughter after her father and I split up and her world got all topsy turvy. I had told her I loved her in all sorts of ways before that, but the forehead kiss and “Love you, kid” became a nighttime ritual for us as well. Even when she was with her dad I'd call to tell her every night. Now, she's off at college and I text/call her a few times a week to tell her. Some nights, if I'm later than usual I get a “Love you, mom” prompting and it makes my heart swell.
Yeah I agree with you. He is purposely waiting until a week before the trip to tell OP so that it makes her the bad guy to his family and everyone for getting in the way of her going. If he knew that this woman is friends with his cousins he should’ve made that clear in advance to them that going with him is contingent on her not being part of the trip.
I personally wouldn’t have a problem with my BF going on a trip with someone who slept with my ex. The cheating from the past that happened was the ex-bf’s fault. My BF is not my ex and I trust him.I would however be upset if I found out that he handled it the way OPs bf is handling it with a last minute bomb drop.
There is no easy solution here. Jane isn't going anywhere. You have to decide if it is more important to exclude Jane in the future or to have your dad at important holidays and events. Jane is clearly awful and knows how to push your buttons.
Are you able to work on the only part of this situation that is in your control, your reactions? Clearly Jane is immature and the only way to have peace is for you to be the bigger person. You need to learn to embody the word 'unbothered'. Jane turns the lights off? Shrug and turn them back on when she walks away. Jane gives a half assed apology? Shrug and continue on to breakfast. She will not change and expecting her to suddenly mature at her age will drive you insane. Perhaps there is a reason she is particularly triggering to you, or perhaps you are the type of person who is easily annoyed.
I'd recommend therapy as well as some sort of mindfulness/meditation. Enjoy your last day of vacation and make genuine memories with your family. Life is so precious and short. Don't let this woman ruin your time.
People only change if they truly want to. Probably one of the most common mistakes young people make is trying to “get their partner to change”. The only person you can get to change is yourself.
It's also very possible to delete the app from his phone when he's not using it, that does not delete the profile. So all he has to do is reinstall the app and all of his matches and messages are still in place.
Seriously this sub is wild. Always so quick to call something abuse with barely any context. If she has specifically told him not to do that in the past because it triggers her then yes this is more serious. But if it has never been established as a clear boundary then it’s laughable to call that sexual assault in a relationship.
its just not how i like to process negative emotions
then i got more and more angry, and i yelled something violent into the phone and hung up
The way you process negative emotions is not healthy. You should be able to be vulnerable and cry in front of your partner. You should be able to talk about things without resorting to violent yelling.
Obviously break up, you just became the 4th person in his life given his child is 1 , his mother 2, and the mother of his child 3, with you at the veryyyyyyy end :,/
Its less about the smarts and more about being financially stable. Having a degree improves your chances of having a stable life financially much more than people here are willing to admit. If someone is financially stable without a degree then thats cool too and degree is obviously not required in that case. But lets be honest, financial stability is not easy to come by without a degree
I think you're absolutely right about OP using “son” would be the beginning of the change in their dynamic. I think it could be as “easy” as just saying “I'm really glad you're here” at the dinner table, in the car, watching TV together, whatever. It doesn't have to be a big moment if that's something OP is worrying about. It doesn't have to be perfect either, life never is.
And I'm glad to hear another family had “Love you, kid.” It's something I passed on to my daughter after her father and I split up and her world got all topsy turvy. I had told her I loved her in all sorts of ways before that, but the forehead kiss and “Love you, kid” became a nighttime ritual for us as well. Even when she was with her dad I'd call to tell her every night. Now, she's off at college and I text/call her a few times a week to tell her. Some nights, if I'm later than usual I get a “Love you, mom” prompting and it makes my heart swell.
Your girl likes the attention and is entertaining this.
Yeah I agree with you. He is purposely waiting until a week before the trip to tell OP so that it makes her the bad guy to his family and everyone for getting in the way of her going. If he knew that this woman is friends with his cousins he should’ve made that clear in advance to them that going with him is contingent on her not being part of the trip.
I personally wouldn’t have a problem with my BF going on a trip with someone who slept with my ex. The cheating from the past that happened was the ex-bf’s fault. My BF is not my ex and I trust him.I would however be upset if I found out that he handled it the way OPs bf is handling it with a last minute bomb drop.
There is no easy solution here. Jane isn't going anywhere. You have to decide if it is more important to exclude Jane in the future or to have your dad at important holidays and events. Jane is clearly awful and knows how to push your buttons.
Are you able to work on the only part of this situation that is in your control, your reactions? Clearly Jane is immature and the only way to have peace is for you to be the bigger person. You need to learn to embody the word 'unbothered'. Jane turns the lights off? Shrug and turn them back on when she walks away. Jane gives a half assed apology? Shrug and continue on to breakfast. She will not change and expecting her to suddenly mature at her age will drive you insane. Perhaps there is a reason she is particularly triggering to you, or perhaps you are the type of person who is easily annoyed.
I'd recommend therapy as well as some sort of mindfulness/meditation. Enjoy your last day of vacation and make genuine memories with your family. Life is so precious and short. Don't let this woman ruin your time.
I think he does have PTSD from the accident. He saw it happen and had to drag my lifeless body out of the street.
Why have you not outright rejected her?
Gtfo dude
People only change if they truly want to. Probably one of the most common mistakes young people make is trying to “get their partner to change”. The only person you can get to change is yourself.
If your husband will not remove his dog, you must remove your child.
It's also very possible to delete the app from his phone when he's not using it, that does not delete the profile. So all he has to do is reinstall the app and all of his matches and messages are still in place.
Seriously this sub is wild. Always so quick to call something abuse with barely any context. If she has specifically told him not to do that in the past because it triggers her then yes this is more serious. But if it has never been established as a clear boundary then it’s laughable to call that sexual assault in a relationship.
its just not how i like to process negative emotions
then i got more and more angry, and i yelled something violent into the phone and hung up
The way you process negative emotions is not healthy. You should be able to be vulnerable and cry in front of your partner. You should be able to talk about things without resorting to violent yelling.
No
It's obvious this was a relationship of little value to begin with. Even without the incident that happened I'd still advise you to end it.
You need to stop wasting your time and he deserves to find someone that is excited to spend time with him.
She may be talking like this now because she wants out of whatever situation she's in. Perhaps you should leave her for a good woman, married or not.
Obviously break up, you just became the 4th person in his life given his child is 1 , his mother 2, and the mother of his child 3, with you at the veryyyyyyy end :,/
The photographer was actively participating in the “joke.”
Why do you think he’s cheating? Is there something happening or just a random thought?
This. I regularly take my cyclo with dinner and here I am at 3 AM, scrolling Reddit. Prescription was supposed to help my back and get sleep