They have rekindled a small friendship, i am not at all worried about them “getting together” or anything it just really rubs me up the wrong way and it feels targeted
It rubs you the wrong way because you know you should be worried. She has no issue going and making you feel uncomfortable about it.
Next you'll find out that they're best friends now and she stays the night.
I hate that it was a situationship. I communicated early on that I’d never had a boyfriend and that wasn’t my choice, only had casual and that I was embarrassed about that. I opened up to him. He said I dated shitty guys in the past. It’s a shame it didn’t work out, in the early days it was so wonderful and lovely, and then a few months down the line he still hadn’t taken me on a date. He became critical and cold, despite initially being friendly, passive aggressive. Telling me I was bad at planning things when I planned everything
Why would a guy not ever take a girl on a date? I did everything for him instead like I was a man and I was so ashamed now
The affectionate guy is giving you what you want right out of the gate. There's no challenge there. Nothing broken for you to fix. Sounds like you're the type of woman that likes a challenge, a guy that's a bit of a project.
Do the affectionate guy a favor; if you're not that into him, don't be with him just because you get what you want. He may need more from you that you're willing to give, because your attraction to him isn't as strong. If you're not really feeling it today, there's a possibility that after a year or two you'll be struggling to have intimacy with the guy. If this is how you feel, then cut him off now so he can find a partner that's actually into him.
You really want to marry a guy so pathetic he pays to go see women get hard? A grown ass man who also can’t stop watching other people have sex in videos? Such a winner you’ve got there.
I don’t think he’s a good partner even if he does get a stable job in the future. He doesn’t seem motivated to do anything and he’s clearly not trying to make things better for you or for himself. imagine you get married to this guy, sounds like you’ll mother him for the rest of your life. don’t be a martyr. also, major red flag that he keeps borrowing money from you but he knows he’s incapable of paying you back right away. he’s taking advantage of you.
Leave her alone..
That’s a terrible surprise and I feel really sorry for you.
You need to get yourself tested for STDs. Then you should talk to a lawyer. Get some good advice before confronting him.
They have rekindled a small friendship, i am not at all worried about them “getting together” or anything it just really rubs me up the wrong way and it feels targeted
It rubs you the wrong way because you know you should be worried. She has no issue going and making you feel uncomfortable about it.
Next you'll find out that they're best friends now and she stays the night.
wtf? not very hot drugs?
boyfriend does this for 2 years. you stay with him.
hello, red flag. have we met.
I hate that it was a situationship. I communicated early on that I’d never had a boyfriend and that wasn’t my choice, only had casual and that I was embarrassed about that. I opened up to him. He said I dated shitty guys in the past. It’s a shame it didn’t work out, in the early days it was so wonderful and lovely, and then a few months down the line he still hadn’t taken me on a date. He became critical and cold, despite initially being friendly, passive aggressive. Telling me I was bad at planning things when I planned everything
Why would a guy not ever take a girl on a date? I did everything for him instead like I was a man and I was so ashamed now
The affectionate guy is giving you what you want right out of the gate. There's no challenge there. Nothing broken for you to fix. Sounds like you're the type of woman that likes a challenge, a guy that's a bit of a project.
Do the affectionate guy a favor; if you're not that into him, don't be with him just because you get what you want. He may need more from you that you're willing to give, because your attraction to him isn't as strong. If you're not really feeling it today, there's a possibility that after a year or two you'll be struggling to have intimacy with the guy. If this is how you feel, then cut him off now so he can find a partner that's actually into him.
You really want to marry a guy so pathetic he pays to go see women get hard? A grown ass man who also can’t stop watching other people have sex in videos? Such a winner you’ve got there.
I don’t think he’s a good partner even if he does get a stable job in the future. He doesn’t seem motivated to do anything and he’s clearly not trying to make things better for you or for himself. imagine you get married to this guy, sounds like you’ll mother him for the rest of your life. don’t be a martyr. also, major red flag that he keeps borrowing money from you but he knows he’s incapable of paying you back right away. he’s taking advantage of you.