Your BF is going to continuously date young girls because he's so immature and insecure that he can't handle the idea of not being someone's only experience.
Also because those will be the only girls who don't immediately see through his bullshit.
Sorry you went from shit to bad, but keep looking.
It sounds like you moved from one toxic POS to another. Get him gone, find yourself and find your self worth, because you are worth something. To some you’re worth everything. Don’t be a doormat for negative men, break the cycle. X
Don't respond. It's not worth it. You've moved on, and thus far your life has been better. Any attempt to establish contact will just derail your progress.
IF she is suffering, that's on her, you don't need it.
IF she's not suffering, you don't need to be in her life.
You're not her guard, you're not her friend, and you're definitely not responsible for her. Let her go, and really move on. The fact that you're overthinking this shows that she does not need to be in your life.
Can you confront him and tell him he’s put you in a terrible position, he’s causing you guilt and this is too heavy a secret to keep. Friend deserves to know that he has been betrayed. Tell him that he, or wife need to confess to friend asap, because you should not have to.
Sorry I didn't catch you ages!! Are you both in your teens or something? Seriously grow up, if you can't have a proper conversation about what you both want in the bedroom then maybe you shouldn't be together.
These are pretty normal thoughts when you start dating – what if I’m not attractive enough, what if the other person is crazy or boring or looks different in person etc. Chances are she has similar worries. The more you do it though the less scary it is. You have very little to lose and everything to gain.
I only brought it up to them a second time after my mom admitted she didn't trust the jeweler and thinks I should get a second opinion. I don't love it less, I'm just concerned that they told me they can't adjust it or tighten the stone.
I believe sex is an important part of a relationship so much so that I just ended a 3 year relationship with a porn addict with PIED because we could not have sex due to his addiction and ED.
So when I read your post title I was ready to sympathize with you, thinking you had a sexless marriage (less than 10x a year). Then I go on to read you are still having sex every 1-2 weeks which is average. Complaining about an average amount of sex. I’ve had friends who have sex x3 a year.
Then I continue to read its less now because she’s pregnant with your second child. She’s carrying your baby and your primary concern is you are not getting enough sex. This can’t be real. Someone this selfish cannot exist. I feel so much sympathy for your girlfriend right now.
YTA. Sex every 1-2 weeks in a 5 year relationship is not you being neglected. You have a high sex drive. It’s not fair to expect her to take care of it ALL the time. It’s not her job. You take care of yourself when your needs exceed hers.
Your BF is going to continuously date young girls because he's so immature and insecure that he can't handle the idea of not being someone's only experience.
Also because those will be the only girls who don't immediately see through his bullshit.
Sorry you went from shit to bad, but keep looking.
It sounds like you moved from one toxic POS to another. Get him gone, find yourself and find your self worth, because you are worth something. To some you’re worth everything. Don’t be a doormat for negative men, break the cycle. X
Don't respond. It's not worth it. You've moved on, and thus far your life has been better. Any attempt to establish contact will just derail your progress.
IF she is suffering, that's on her, you don't need it.
IF she's not suffering, you don't need to be in her life.
You're not her guard, you're not her friend, and you're definitely not responsible for her. Let her go, and really move on. The fact that you're overthinking this shows that she does not need to be in your life.
Can you confront him and tell him he’s put you in a terrible position, he’s causing you guilt and this is too heavy a secret to keep. Friend deserves to know that he has been betrayed. Tell him that he, or wife need to confess to friend asap, because you should not have to.
Sorry I didn't catch you ages!! Are you both in your teens or something? Seriously grow up, if you can't have a proper conversation about what you both want in the bedroom then maybe you shouldn't be together.
These are pretty normal thoughts when you start dating – what if I’m not attractive enough, what if the other person is crazy or boring or looks different in person etc. Chances are she has similar worries. The more you do it though the less scary it is. You have very little to lose and everything to gain.
What are you mad at that he rated you a 6 (not a bad rating btw) or that he rated your friend higher?
OP asked for a revenge suggestion and he got one. I’m not his moral compass.
I only brought it up to them a second time after my mom admitted she didn't trust the jeweler and thinks I should get a second opinion. I don't love it less, I'm just concerned that they told me they can't adjust it or tighten the stone.
Your parents need to intervene and kick him the fuck out. Quit letting him treat you like a doormat.
Is this real? Are you trolling us?
I believe sex is an important part of a relationship so much so that I just ended a 3 year relationship with a porn addict with PIED because we could not have sex due to his addiction and ED.
So when I read your post title I was ready to sympathize with you, thinking you had a sexless marriage (less than 10x a year). Then I go on to read you are still having sex every 1-2 weeks which is average. Complaining about an average amount of sex. I’ve had friends who have sex x3 a year.
Then I continue to read its less now because she’s pregnant with your second child. She’s carrying your baby and your primary concern is you are not getting enough sex. This can’t be real. Someone this selfish cannot exist. I feel so much sympathy for your girlfriend right now.
YTA. Sex every 1-2 weeks in a 5 year relationship is not you being neglected. You have a high sex drive. It’s not fair to expect her to take care of it ALL the time. It’s not her job. You take care of yourself when your needs exceed hers.