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Jordan and Alisa, 25 y.o.
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Date: October 6, 2022
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Wow that is absolutely awful, I’m so sorry. If it were me I would probably never talk to him again, but it’s your relationship and your choice. If you do want to work things out you should probably confront him and tell him the things he said were inappropriate and made you uncomfortable. He really messed up though, and I don’t know how he’ll ever be able to earn back your trust after something like that. It’s not normal to be attracted to family, so there’s definitely something very wrong here. Hate to say it, but watch him around children.
You don’t have to be stingy…like McDonald’s is a shit date place. If I were her I would think you didn’t value me (or health) because you chose there for a date. A nice restaurant where it’s 50/50 is a better idea.
When we'd go out, all of us, I did notice that he'd get annoyed when we'd order fast food or if she'd be talking to one of us for too long. And the whole jealous thing sometimes he'd wanna go home early and take her with him
The boyfriend didn’t say anything wrong. He said it was wrong but that he understands the frustration. Dad was pushing his morals and was completely out of line. I do not understand why he got upset. He had no reason. Zero. None.
You need to really just stop. I’m sorry but after seeing your ages this post makes me furious. Step off your high horse. You are not a college advisor. You are not an administrator from a medical school. He is 18. If his heart is really passionate about moving toward medicine then there are ways to better support his dreams. He can go to CC to build his GPA and transfer to undergrad and work from there. The fact he’s in CC is commendable. You need a reality check.
If he doesn’t want to go into the medical field he could try for healthcare administration and so on. There are plenty of fields for people to enter if they aren’t strong in math or science. You need to do better and I’m honestly amazed how confident you sound at 18. Finish college first. And why is this even stressing you out so much? Are you his mother?
You've been together for such a short time yet you know his default is to get defensive in arguments? Honey, you shouldn't be arguing enough this early on for you to say that.
This isn't the guy for you. You don't trust him (with reason) and instead of being in the intensely loving phase you're arguing regularly in an unhealthy way.
I know I really fucked up, I just need some to bath me and clean up my Shit really
This person is making an assertion based on assumptions about strangers’ lives. There is no logical reason to assume that exes reach out with innocent intent only in the rarest of circumstances as a general rule. “But that’s been true in my own life, as well as the lives of my friends” does not constitute a logical reason. all that does is describe what is normalized and expected amongst a particular group or subculture.
For example, I only really hear straight people talking this way. befriending exes is so normal as to be a non-issue throughout a lot of the queer community.
He is very controlling, especially about money. He used to look through the grocery store receipts and would criticize if particular line items were too expensive. Even though at the time he had a comfortable 6-figure salary and no debt
Dump him
He is extremely religious and conservative.
Dump him
(he's “complementarian” — men and women are 'of equal value' but have different roles)
Holy Sh*t, dump him
but have felt guilty for not being the stay at home mom he would have liked me to be
Dump him
Re abortion, I lost one of my closest friends because he figured out that that person was considering an abortion and implored them not to murder their child.
Dump him. Dump him and reconnect with that friend
In daily life, he discourages toddler son from wanting to wear nail polish or jewelry or dress up
DUMP HIM. PROTECT YOUR CHILD AND DUMP HIM.
He once wrote to a group mailing list asking the women to dress modestly in consideration of their Christian brothers
Oh. My. God. DUMP HIM
I would be afraid to share any of my sexual fantasies with him, I think he would consider any roleplaying cheating or sinful.
WHY ARE YOU WITH THIS MAN?? DUMP HIM.
He doesn't like it when I color my hair or cut it short. I've considered getting piercings or tattoos, which he also disapproves of. I stopped playing music when he is home, because he criticized it for its profanity or (music video) people wearing revealing clothes.
Dump him.
He is constantly tired and, it feels to me, joyless
Literally the only understandable/fixable issue you've said so far (not relevant though, given the rest of the mountain of crap)
but either he could not change them (because they were fundamental biblical principles that he couldn't change his views on)
Dump him.
It feels unfair of me — to give up when he's trying so naked.
Trying so hot? Because he ALLOWED (I repeat, “””ALLOWED””””) you to get a credit card. Bloody hell, are your standards really so low? That is genuinely heartbreaking.
But people stay with their spouses through cancer, dementia, addiction, debilitating accident
With all due respect, do NOT compare being a homophobic controlling misogynist with having cancer. Cancer is not a choice. Being a bigoted POS is. (Don't say “but it's how he was brought up!!!” PLENTY of folks who endure such an upbringing become better people-he hasn't)
for wanting to discard him
HE DESERVES IT
I will lose all of our community, all of our nearby family.
I am sorry if that is the case, BUT a) if they're anything like him you are better off without them and b) try reconnecting with that friend he drove away.
good family man
NO. HE. IS. NOT.
Tell me, what happens when one of your kids comes out as gay? Or decides to be an atheist? OR steps out of line in some other way? What then?
he will be a broken human being if I leave. (Though sometimes I think that's as much because of his self-image of being a good Christian, husband, father vs actually loving/missing me.)
….do you even hear yourself? You just said he doesn't actually give a damn about you just his reputation-SO RUIN IT.
I'm terrified. I feel like a terrible human being. But I want to be free. Aren't I so very selfish?
Listen, listen closely. You are not terrible. You are not selfish. You are a victim of a horribly bigoted and abusive controlling man. Read everything you wrote. Are you seriously telling me you think staying with this person is a good idea. Really?
always remembers my birthday and our anniversary.
….wow. Your standards really are low if you think THAT is a bonus. That is BARE MINIMUM stuff right there.
I'm really sorry you've been raised to think any of this is normal, but it isn't. It really isn't. You are not supposed to feel any of this in a marriage. You partner should be your equal, and your best friend. I hope you can get out of this abusive rut.
Oh, and one last thing: DUMP HIM.
His behavior has nothing to do with being autistic. He is simply a jerk.
Personally I don’t let jerks take up space in my personal life
Just break up with him, honestly. You need to work on yourself and you'll never probably get over the fact that he was talking to another girl.
He says he barely sees his own friends let alone opportunities where he can introduce me but there's often opportunities he can meet up with them, there was a party recently that had a lot of his friends there and I thought this was the perfect moment to bring me along and to introduce me, but he said he didn't want to go to it, gave no reason. I heard stories from our mutual friend about how fun it was seeing everyone again and I feel bad that this was the perfect moment and he brushed it aside.