I would say the problem isnt your physical appearance. I see people that are not that attractive find people. My guess would be your attitude in general towards your situation. Think about it this way, based on what you wrote you want someone to materialize out of nowhere and just love you unconditionally. Love takes time, and you get time of potential suitors by being either attractive or interesting enough that people want to know more. By not making an effort in your appearance regardless of your genetics, you handicap yourself. By having a negative attitude and depressed mood, you push people away. My guess would be all the different therapists said things you didnt want to hear and you keep changing therapists because you are shopping for an answer you arent hearing.
Nothing to figure out. He thinks he’s got you and doesn’t have to make an effort anymore. He doesn’t care about you being in pain, he just wants his jollies and your just a hole to give it to him. Sorry but, it is what it is.
The relationship is over and honestly she sounds like a complete bitch (not least for doing it while you're on holiday). You will probably be glad to be rid of her in the long run.
Block her on everything, resist the urge to contact her or check what she is doing and begin moving on.
If you truly connect, I don't see a problem. But bare in mind that males develop until the age of 25, mental development included. So don't expect incredible maturity from your boyfriend and try to be patient.
I would say the problem isnt your physical appearance. I see people that are not that attractive find people. My guess would be your attitude in general towards your situation. Think about it this way, based on what you wrote you want someone to materialize out of nowhere and just love you unconditionally. Love takes time, and you get time of potential suitors by being either attractive or interesting enough that people want to know more. By not making an effort in your appearance regardless of your genetics, you handicap yourself. By having a negative attitude and depressed mood, you push people away. My guess would be all the different therapists said things you didnt want to hear and you keep changing therapists because you are shopping for an answer you arent hearing.
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Nothing to figure out. He thinks he’s got you and doesn’t have to make an effort anymore. He doesn’t care about you being in pain, he just wants his jollies and your just a hole to give it to him. Sorry but, it is what it is.
Thank you for this! 🙂
It will only get worse honey Dump him before its to late.
Thats not a keeper and children will suffer. Run .
Yet he's blaming his “date”! Clueless
Are you ready to be the next girl he plays? That’s how you get over him lol.
The relationship is over and honestly she sounds like a complete bitch (not least for doing it while you're on holiday). You will probably be glad to be rid of her in the long run.
Block her on everything, resist the urge to contact her or check what she is doing and begin moving on.
If you truly connect, I don't see a problem. But bare in mind that males develop until the age of 25, mental development included. So don't expect incredible maturity from your boyfriend and try to be patient.