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KASANDRA-HOTSEX Public Chat Channel
Date: October 23, 2022
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I'm sorry… my native language is Spanish… I can solve doubts
Always follow your heart and gut.
So she was with her ex fwb or her boss ? If he was both then you’re fked from the beginning, luckily you got out before things escalate further ( which can involve with children if you know what I mean )
Yes.
With 12 hours shifts their parents aren't the ones helping, but the ones doing the job. And she's the one who's helping. You wrote you want a family and kidS too. With a woman unable to meet you more than once a month. How do you imagine that part will work out?
I am really sorry that you went through that. Intimate partner abuse is a really terrible thing to go through, and it can be really difficult to come to terms with, especially for men. Even being willing to admit that it's been happening can be extremely difficult.
A lot of people here have already said most of the important things, like that you need to see a lawyer immediately, and that you should probably leave to protect your daughter. But that's probably not going to be the case this time, especially considering your current financial issues. The stress you're feeling at being unemployed in this situation is completely understandable. It's also understandable that you think that making her admit that she did something wrong is going to fix this situation.
Unfortunately, it's very unlikely that your partner is going to admit that she has done anything wrong. She's already told you that you're the one responsible for her actions. In her head, you made her throw that lamp. She won't be able to admit it, because if she does, she needs to deal with the guilt of hurting you and almost hurting or killing your daughter. It's all easier for her if it's your fault. Admitting fault is not going to happen without extensive psychological help.
Have there been incidents like this before? Has she thrown things at you, or around you? Has she hit you or screamed at you uncontrollably? I'd really like to hope that nothing like this has happened before, but in light of what you've said about her interrogations, I have my doubts. These kinds of things typically happen as part of a pattern.
I would recommend that you file a police report about what happened. Your partner put your life and your daughter's life in danger. What she did was unacceptable. You should then go stay with any family members that you have nearby. If that isn't an option, you should ask her to leave, or ask the police for a family violence restraining order (or your local equivalent). You should see a lawyer and arrange a separation agreement with you taking custody of your daughter for the moment, preferably with supervised visits for your partner, and make those visits contingent on your partner beginning, and continuing, therapy. You should also ensure that you receive her consent to confirm that she has been attending those therapy appointments. This protects both you and your daughter.
I understand that you love your partner, and that you probably want to make this relationship work. Maybe it can work, but not unless she gets help. If she doesn't get help, the abuse will only get worse. You will go through periods of sweetness and love, followed by violence and fear, and then it'll start again. This will slowly eat away at you, stripping your self-confidence and wellbeing until you won't be able to protect yourself or your daughter any further.
Women are socialized to not to give up on others. Give them the benefit of the doubt, give them another chance, then try harder ourselves.
What happens is we short-change ourselves by this sacrifice. We put our needs aside, and martyr ourselves for love.
Love yourself more than you love him, and you will realize that you are worthy of someone who is good to you as you are to them.
Even being alone is better than being used.
You can do this!
If you read her comments, she says her bf is aware and he's gay and sleeps with men. I think ya'll are all being too harsh on this girl.
I commented this above but re-putting this info here.