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What’s funny is that her removing or getting rid of them won’t fix anything. He’ll still sulk and be weird about them, what are they continue to reside in her closet or not. When she remove them, it won’t make him feel better, because “won’t count” since she only did it bc he asked her to.
This will be the first in a long line of compromises and losses of freedom/self she will be pressured into indulging to make his insecurities feel better. But it never does. Every time she caves in on something, she’ll think this will be the last thing, this will be the thing that finally makes him feel better so he’ll fucking relax…but it never will be, it will never go away and a new emergence of “thing that makes him feel insecure” will pop up next.
All she’s done by caving on this is to ratify the notion that his uncomfortable feelings of insecurity mean that there’s something she has to change, fix, or do to make him feel better. And that’s exactly why you do not feed that beast by caving in to what it demands.
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This is a terrible story. I am sorry OP, these people are not your friends. All you need to know is if you were a guy, assuming these guys were straight you wouldn't have waken up hard.
You did nothing wrong. It's 100% reasonable to expect the people who you feel are your friends protect you.
As someone who spent several years in a relationship like this, all I can say is… just don't.
Your boyfriend's reaction to having had a bad day is extreme on its own, and his unwillingness or inability to communicate with you properly afterwards is concerning.
Of course it's possible that something so bad and traumatic happened that he would feel compelled to hide in a closet and be too shocked to talk about it afterwards, but this isn't and shouldn't be considered normal behaviour in any way.
I told him that him asking for sex and not accepting anything else I offer makes me feel like I have to sleep with him to make him feel better.
If this has happened more than just once or twice over the years, you're in for a bad time. A really, really bad time. If your boyfriend is indeed using sex as a coping mechanism, and if he also equates love with sex on top of it, then you are fighting a battle you can't win unless you're willing to give up your right to consent.
You want to stay with someone who disrespects you the best thing to do is to get on more reliable, long term birth control then. The arm implant lasts long term so does the IUD and there's two options to choose from!
Dump him. That's it, that's the only advice you need. There's nothing you can or should do to teach a 32 year old man to be a bare minimum non abusive person. He's intentionally trying to hurt you/ rile you up because he doesn't feel like screaming is enough. Do not put up with that, don't engage it or respond to it, you deserve better.
OP you won’t. The way you met and how young you are compared to him is a dynamic most find as predatory. A 32M can’t find someone closer to his age and had to get with the girl who flirted with him when she was in High school only 2 years ago. It’s not a good look no matter how you twist it.
Why not? It’s been four months. Dating is to find someone who’s right for you, and I promise that you can do better than this guy who doesn’t respect you at all.
I've got a toddler and a kid on the way. My best friend has been struggling with infertility for three years, and has had multiple miscarriages in that time. And let me tell you, I love her enough to respect what she needs, no matter what. I can adjust what I speak to her about constantly, it's absolutely no skin off my back. She's one of my favourite people ever, and I would be devestated if she felt she would rather pull away than ask me to adjust what I speak about for a bit to help her heal. I think your friends will likely feel the same.
You can't be friends right now. If you need to block him for a while so you can adjust and grieve the relationship, do that. Start prioritizing yourself and your needs. Stop and ask yourself why you want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you? Why are you willing to put your life on pause for someone who needs a break and space from you? He's doing what he wants; you do the same. Find some healthy distractions and do those instead of reaching out to him when you're lonely.
No contact only works when you want it to work. You have to try to move on during the time of silence. Don't check his social media. Don't talk to his friends or family. Pretend he doesn't exist if you have to.