I wouldn't trust the manipulation part rn. She is probably reading a bunch of things about narcisism and its symptoms, so she will probably think that her husband have it all even if she never thought he acted in such way.
Our mind does this, similar to when people read about zodiac stuff and are like “oh here it says that leo loves food, and I also love food so it's totally true!” In this case she's probably like “oh here it says that narcisists do X, and years ago there was this one time where he did something similar, he's totally a monster”.
It would be better for her to stop relying on Google and go see a professional for this case
How the f*ck do you know what stage of life someone is in based purely on age, life isn’t some linear robotic timeline. One person in their 30’s could be married with 3 kids, a dog, a house and a full time job, another could be single still in their studies, living with their parents and working a part time job, theres no guarantee in life that by the time your 30 you have your shit together or that your life is any different than it was in your 20’s. It’s extremely obtuse to automatically expect that someone in their 30’s is in a different stage of life when we have no idea of the circumstances of their life.
I’m a really old married person with severe adhd AND I have twins. Did I mention I’m OLD? I have an awesome sex drive and I’m pretty great in bed. Really! LOL
One little advice: get a life outside your relationship
Tell him
I think its messed up that your mom put you up to this. This is between them and should stay that way.
I wouldn't trust the manipulation part rn. She is probably reading a bunch of things about narcisism and its symptoms, so she will probably think that her husband have it all even if she never thought he acted in such way.
Our mind does this, similar to when people read about zodiac stuff and are like “oh here it says that leo loves food, and I also love food so it's totally true!” In this case she's probably like “oh here it says that narcisists do X, and years ago there was this one time where he did something similar, he's totally a monster”.
It would be better for her to stop relying on Google and go see a professional for this case
Asking single people to join your married dynamic is probably not a wise idea.
You need to be looking for couples. Or other guys for you to be friends with.
How the f*ck do you know what stage of life someone is in based purely on age, life isn’t some linear robotic timeline. One person in their 30’s could be married with 3 kids, a dog, a house and a full time job, another could be single still in their studies, living with their parents and working a part time job, theres no guarantee in life that by the time your 30 you have your shit together or that your life is any different than it was in your 20’s. It’s extremely obtuse to automatically expect that someone in their 30’s is in a different stage of life when we have no idea of the circumstances of their life.
Take screenshots and send them to yourself if you want a divorce. Otherwise confront her.
I’m a really old married person with severe adhd AND I have twins. Did I mention I’m OLD? I have an awesome sex drive and I’m pretty great in bed. Really! LOL