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✨, ARE YOU READY FOR THE BEST ASS YOU CAN EAT IN YOUR LIFE? COMEN ON…. LUSH ON, MAKE ME VIBE SO VERY HOT THAT I CAN’T STOP SQUIRTING // ALL MY MEDIA 222 TKS AND !!! @GOAL: 10 SQUATS AND SQUIRT★★ [644 tokens remaining]
Date: October 6, 2022
Currently dating someone who stayed in a relationship like this for 6 years, let me tell you that I foresee a lot of work in your future to undo the damages she (& her behaviors caused by a traumatic upbringing) did. Don't give up on yourself, on your friends and hobby, you deserve to be your own person, with his own opinion.
I very much recommend therapy, solely to avoid falling in the people pleasing circle of guilt once you go on and live your life that you deserve.
it’s hot because i see him struggle with how they treat him and he is such a good friend to them. but idk how much should i have to compromise in order to be with a person who i am in love with?
I vote creepy
It's going to take more than just a gift to get your wife's forgiveness. There's a lot of things wrong with this scenario:
It's her parents. You knew what family you were marrying into and you should have accepted the potential scenario that you have to host or online with her family. You said you haven't gotten her a Christmas gift in 2 years. What kind of spouse are you to do that? You always get gifts every single year no matter if its your spouse, your parents, your siblings, whatever. This shows neglect. You also haven't taken her out on her birthday in a couple years too? You are supposed to do this every year. This again shows neglect. (Combined Points 2 & 3 – its no wonder you have a dead bedroom). You falsely accused her of cheating. She's not going to forgive you easily for that.
You need to be spending time with her like tomorrow is your last day. You should be showing her frequent affection, letting her know how much you love her, getting her gifts on these special occasions, helping out with her parents (not making things worse). You can certainly try to see if this will change her mind.
However, since you said it was a few years of neglecting to do special things for her, that level of resentment builds up inside a woman. My last ex did that to me with special things & would get into fights with me & accuse me of cheating (when he was cheating himself). If that had been a marriage, there was no way in hell I'd have taken him back.
His mind has changed about children, that happens.
You guys are no longer compatible. You want different things now.
I know your heart hurts but he is setting you both free to online the lives you want.
Letting go is love
You’re right to feel mad because he gaslighted you. He cheated. You can no longer trust him that it was never physical, cheaters lie, and he cannot expect you not to be mad at him.
Can't believe the downvotes in here, all these people acting like they know for certain what the situation is based off a few paragraphs. Ridiculous.
How long is the break? Could you look into maybe a life coach to help you get back on track?
Lol she underwent a 6 month assessment that determined she wasn't autistic according to other comments, so now she's doctor shopping. So it's worse.
This is abusive behavior, and mental health is not an excuse if your fiance doesn't recognize this is a huge problem and actively try to address it. You need to draw clear lines that you will not be treated this way, and that it's his responsibility to seek therapy, medication, whatever help he needs to behave in a consistently respectful and loving manner to you. You cannot fix this by yourself and you should not live! with it. If he's unwilling to treat it like a serious issue and do the work to fix it, you need to leave.
The way to react to this type of criticism is to immediately break up with him.
Hahahaha wow that's crazy. And gross too. Idk why straight women see it as harmless just cause they're a woman. If a guy asked her that she'd be grossed out.
I agree he jumping to conclusions but i think asking “hey is that guy gay?” (Cause otherwise wtf) is kinda inappropriate too. It basically comes down to comfort levels, like op can say I don't feel comfortable with you leaning that close to male friends, and she can say too bad and they aren't meant for each other. If OPs gf wouldn't mind op doing that with other girls then it's not hypocritical at least.
I'd say you could also incorporate advice from poly people, where you assess if there is an actual need for your jealous. Like is op missing security in other places of the relationship which is leading him to insecurity? Or like you said previously is he just looking for reasons to distrust her?
Although I will say I did a double take at the ages in this post. If you keep breaking up every couple months just give it a rest
I dated a total liar and it was always like this. Everyone got weird off information. He tried to keep certain friends from me. His phone was completely off limits. He was out A LOT. Of course he was cheating. He will always have some explanation he insists on that really doesn't make sense. He will be adamant. He will never be ashamed of his lies. He will never let you all the way in. I do not recommend continuing this relationship.
I tried to tell him how I feel but he doesn't seem to care, and when he heard me cry he didn't care. On the other hand, he has his moments when he shows me his love in all possible ways.
Dump her. Give her a month to find a place. She’ll likely end ip with the guy. Fuck it. She’ll be hooking up with other people besides him soon enough.
Work on yourself for a bit.
Read the title and thought it was about him getting midnight snacks and waking you up when he got out of bed. Then read the post. Good lord.
How many posts you make? The 2.7 years together is a unique detail…
You should start seeing him and show him that there's a whole lot more he could get out of life. You both could be happy together.