I could bet that if she met someone she really liked there wouldn't be any waiting. She's just keeping you on the fishing line as a back up. I've been in similar positions as you are right now and what I learned is you should never wait on someone, you're just leaving yourself open to the mindduck.
You can keep it to treasure the times of good, you can cover it for the times of bad, I don’t think you should hold guilt for it. You mentioned that you like the tattoo. So if to like it tattoo an asterisk next to it to remind you of a time gone by
Eh both of you seem not ready for relationships. He has insane demands about male friends and you two clearly disagree on whether it's ok to be friends/secretly meeting up with your ex (very reasonable boundary tbh)
Just being in love isn’t enough. Love is needed to get started but love won’t carry you together for 50 years. People love drugs or booze or gambling or adrenaline. It’s not enough to have love.
Left it out of the post but she also posted live! shortly after we talked and intentionally didn’t reply but now I’m thinking maybe that’s what she wanted? I’m probably overthinking everything ?
You knew that she doesn't like this yet still did this anyway… what a vile creature you are.
You asked for opinions, and I gave you mine. There's no need to be rude about it. And don't worry about me, I'm doing alright!
I was referring to what he was doing AFTER he dropped out of college. It was an endless cycle of gaming, partying, and just doing nothing.
Yes, I am willing to admit what I did wrong.
I could bet that if she met someone she really liked there wouldn't be any waiting. She's just keeping you on the fishing line as a back up. I've been in similar positions as you are right now and what I learned is you should never wait on someone, you're just leaving yourself open to the mindduck.
DO NOT GO BACK..
You will be trapped for ever. Stay away from him and do not communicate
You can keep it to treasure the times of good, you can cover it for the times of bad, I don’t think you should hold guilt for it. You mentioned that you like the tattoo. So if to like it tattoo an asterisk next to it to remind you of a time gone by
Exactly. Its absolutely niave to think sexual compatability will someone poof out of nowhere.
Eh both of you seem not ready for relationships. He has insane demands about male friends and you two clearly disagree on whether it's ok to be friends/secretly meeting up with your ex (very reasonable boundary tbh)
Don't reproduce with bigots.
Just being in love isn’t enough. Love is needed to get started but love won’t carry you together for 50 years. People love drugs or booze or gambling or adrenaline. It’s not enough to have love.
I’ve been doing my best ?
Left it out of the post but she also posted live! shortly after we talked and intentionally didn’t reply but now I’m thinking maybe that’s what she wanted? I’m probably overthinking everything ?