Just stop already bruh, only doing yourself a bigger disservice by continuing to spout nonsense. Do what you feel is best for you but don’t try to pass it off as advice to others fr and “reality”.
Really? He threatened someone's life because he spit too close to you for your BF's liking?
Your bf is a donkey and a coward, to boot. I'm going to take a wild guess that the guy wasn't towering over all of you, breathing fire. I'm seeing a well-dressed young man, with his whole life ahead of him, taking advantage of a moment where he knows the object of his attention is 99% likely to be unwilling and 100% unable to come back at a threat like that with the same energy.
You should rethink that relationship. He's a b-word.
You can do nothing. You lose no matter what. You butt in, it pushes her away. You ignore it, you essentially ignore her. You get to tell her one time about how problematic you guys find him, and then she has to decide.
It may be easier to find a woman who’s more interested in your GF than you and who’s ok with activities where you and GF are having penetrative sex but doesn’t want anything from you herself.
I personally don't know very many people who have never cheated on somebody at some point. I have to imagine it's a lot more common than someone who has never cheated. I don't think it should be that big of a deal and certainly doesn't mean she will definitely cheat on you. I think the mature thing for you to do is decide to trust her until she gives you a real reason not to…like if she actually cheats on you.
The little things mean a lot. You've been with her a long time, how often do you go on dates and spend time one on one? Work can cause a lot of stress and anxiety and women are emotional when it comes to intimacy. Ask her how she feels you're doing in the department of making time for you both. Ask her what she needs. Something is clearly missing, but instead of assuming She's interested in someone else, start with your own relationship. She works full time, is she also carrying a lot of the weight of tasks around the house and with the kids? Does she ever have time to herself? Have candid conversations with her about how she is doing and how she feels your relationship could improve. Start there. If she hasn't given you a reason to believe she's actually cheating, give her a chance to communicate about why she may be feeling disconnected from your relationship right now. What would help? A house cleaner once a week? A babysitter to help so you can get some time together? And maybe some marriage counseling is in order, if for nothing else, to teach you both how to communicate more effectively.
Major creep vibesssss ?
There's more to it but you're probably right
Just stop already bruh, only doing yourself a bigger disservice by continuing to spout nonsense. Do what you feel is best for you but don’t try to pass it off as advice to others fr and “reality”.
Really? He threatened someone's life because he spit too close to you for your BF's liking?
Your bf is a donkey and a coward, to boot. I'm going to take a wild guess that the guy wasn't towering over all of you, breathing fire. I'm seeing a well-dressed young man, with his whole life ahead of him, taking advantage of a moment where he knows the object of his attention is 99% likely to be unwilling and 100% unable to come back at a threat like that with the same energy.
You should rethink that relationship. He's a b-word.
Y’all are immature especially her your grown adults you need to learn to sit and have a conversation and be open to what each has to say
You can do nothing. You lose no matter what. You butt in, it pushes her away. You ignore it, you essentially ignore her. You get to tell her one time about how problematic you guys find him, and then she has to decide.
Look at the post history, absolutely shit stirring. Correct use of idiomatic language except for “making out” and “outtie”? It’s fake.
It may be easier to find a woman who’s more interested in your GF than you and who’s ok with activities where you and GF are having penetrative sex but doesn’t want anything from you herself.
Student loans can be refinanced. Not sure about that amount though. That would take some serious research.
Had he been eating asparagus? That will increase the smell of urine.
I don't like how it's written.
I feel sorry for the OP but I can't blame the bf. Each party is supposed to be on their best behavior when meeting each other for the first time.
The fact that OP said nothing made the bf think that you didn't have a problem with the family's behavior.
I probably would have very quickly left without even saying goodbye.
I personally don't know very many people who have never cheated on somebody at some point. I have to imagine it's a lot more common than someone who has never cheated. I don't think it should be that big of a deal and certainly doesn't mean she will definitely cheat on you. I think the mature thing for you to do is decide to trust her until she gives you a real reason not to…like if she actually cheats on you.
The little things mean a lot. You've been with her a long time, how often do you go on dates and spend time one on one? Work can cause a lot of stress and anxiety and women are emotional when it comes to intimacy. Ask her how she feels you're doing in the department of making time for you both. Ask her what she needs. Something is clearly missing, but instead of assuming She's interested in someone else, start with your own relationship. She works full time, is she also carrying a lot of the weight of tasks around the house and with the kids? Does she ever have time to herself? Have candid conversations with her about how she is doing and how she feels your relationship could improve. Start there. If she hasn't given you a reason to believe she's actually cheating, give her a chance to communicate about why she may be feeling disconnected from your relationship right now. What would help? A house cleaner once a week? A babysitter to help so you can get some time together? And maybe some marriage counseling is in order, if for nothing else, to teach you both how to communicate more effectively.