The man raped you. Are they aware of that? Because I'm genuinely baffled that anybody would tell their daughter to try couples therapy in response to the daughter revealing that her spouse rapes her.
This man refuses therapy. So, what exactly are your parents suggesting? That you go to marriage counseling by yourself? That's not going to work. And, frankly, even if he was willing to consider therapy, no therapist worth their diploma is ever going to agree to sessions with a victim and her abuser. Because all that will do is give the abuser more ammunition to use against the victim.
You are 29 years old. You don't need your parents' permission. Or even their blessing. This is your life. Do you want to continue living it with a man who has no respect for you?
Tell your family about the size of her boobs and see if she finds a problem. And then start crying when she acts upset. Seriously, what she did was gross and disrespectful to you and your relationship.
Being scared of being alone is not a good basis for a good relationship. It's a recipe for abusive relationship thou.
You already cheated though so make sure your actions match your words
The man raped you. Are they aware of that? Because I'm genuinely baffled that anybody would tell their daughter to try couples therapy in response to the daughter revealing that her spouse rapes her.
This man refuses therapy. So, what exactly are your parents suggesting? That you go to marriage counseling by yourself? That's not going to work. And, frankly, even if he was willing to consider therapy, no therapist worth their diploma is ever going to agree to sessions with a victim and her abuser. Because all that will do is give the abuser more ammunition to use against the victim.
You are 29 years old. You don't need your parents' permission. Or even their blessing. This is your life. Do you want to continue living it with a man who has no respect for you?
Tell your family about the size of her boobs and see if she finds a problem. And then start crying when she acts upset. Seriously, what she did was gross and disrespectful to you and your relationship.
She also told me she is not very experienced in relationships and completely missed a lot of signs that I was throwing at her.
Ok, back up. Did you say anything to her? She’s not a mind reader. You had expectations that she didn’t even know about.
Send it to her family.
The only thing I can think of which you can do is to give her an ultimatum.