He punched a door because the baby was crying, it sounds like he is escalating. One of you needs to get out of the house before he does. I don’t care how many therapies he’s done or if this only happens in the morning. He’s not safe and whatever he is doing is not enough. People who hit walls/doors and break things, they’re restraining themselves from hitting you. Eventually the door isn’t satisfactory enough.
It also breaks my heart that you have to do all of this on your own. Paying the bills isn’t enough in this scenario, especially if he’s only working part time.
Leave
She chose this, she’s for the streets. Cut her loose.
Can you introduce your parents to each other over dinner or something?
Maybe she’s right, maybe she’s wrong. But it’s definitely not helping that she has no idea who his family is. That’s an easy thing to address.
He punched a door because the baby was crying, it sounds like he is escalating. One of you needs to get out of the house before he does. I don’t care how many therapies he’s done or if this only happens in the morning. He’s not safe and whatever he is doing is not enough. People who hit walls/doors and break things, they’re restraining themselves from hitting you. Eventually the door isn’t satisfactory enough.
It also breaks my heart that you have to do all of this on your own. Paying the bills isn’t enough in this scenario, especially if he’s only working part time.