Hello. I am sort of in your gfs place. I dated a man for 6 years and just got news he’s with someone new. I am also with someone new and in desperate need of space. For me, there is a lot of self doubting and hatred. Wondering why I wasn’t good enough, why he couldn’t love me. It has nothing to do with my current partner, but I can’t talk to him about it because of the same reaction you had, you seem jealous, hurt and worried, she possibly wants space because even if it’s been four years, she is grieving. You cannot expect someone to let go of nine years, even if it seems to you it’s been long enough.
This makes sense to me and honestly what I was thinking, I feel like I made a mistake by asking that. But at the same time part of me would feel dumb putting in effort into anything if the other person cant even tell me what it is, even if it is just a friendship. Idk is that weird/selfish?
I'm a near 23 year old who personally feels kinda weird about dating 18 year olds. I don't know how 30 year olds can contemplate dating 20 year olds.
Maybe I'm too well adjusted, idk
He’s probably always went along with what she wanted.
Hello. I am sort of in your gfs place. I dated a man for 6 years and just got news he’s with someone new. I am also with someone new and in desperate need of space. For me, there is a lot of self doubting and hatred. Wondering why I wasn’t good enough, why he couldn’t love me. It has nothing to do with my current partner, but I can’t talk to him about it because of the same reaction you had, you seem jealous, hurt and worried, she possibly wants space because even if it’s been four years, she is grieving. You cannot expect someone to let go of nine years, even if it seems to you it’s been long enough.
This makes sense to me and honestly what I was thinking, I feel like I made a mistake by asking that. But at the same time part of me would feel dumb putting in effort into anything if the other person cant even tell me what it is, even if it is just a friendship. Idk is that weird/selfish?
It's not flirty. She just rested her head on his shoulder, not on his crotch.
Other people break up.