Hey doll. First of all take a breath. Seriously. Be kind to yourself here. What would you tell your best friend? You would tell them that a university degree isn’t everything and that they need to prioritize happiness over success. School is expensive and stressful enough as it is, and without direction, it can feel like an insurmountable task. It is totally okay to not know what you want to do, and to be intimidated by people who have dreams that have steps to follow. There’s a great podcast called Psychology Of Your Twenties – it discusses all the massive emotional and mental changes we go through in this time frame, in really easy, compassionate and comprehensive ways. The host does one about feeling directionless and I think you would really like it. As for your parents – sweetheart, people fail courses and drop out of school all the time. It will have happened to your dad and your siblings, whether or not they will ever admit to it. Furthermore, your mom is a perfect example of the genuine help that can be offered to a community, regardless of education/certification. Going to university doesn’t inherently make you a better person. Focus on the things in your life that bring you joy. When in doubt, pursuing a volunteer role or travelling (even becoming a WOOFER or working in a hostel and living somewhere new) can help you find your path or lean into a more peaceful, simple existence. Your parents will project their feelings because they love you and want you to be successful. We just have to broaden their terminology and remind them that there are many roads to happiness. Take your time. Take your space. You are going to be okay. Sending you a virtual big ol squeeze and back tickles.
I'm a bit confused as you seem to not wanting to show your boyfriend friendships with females. Over all long distance relationships require trust and communication otherwise it won't work. it is also important to keep living your own life as well.
If both parties still want for this to work I'd suggest couples therapy.
*My ex boyfriend is buddies with a pedo.
leave his fucking ass.
I'm not really even understanding why you two broke up lol
You want to tell him now that you don’t like her. Their relationship is none of your business. Leave it alone. You are only doing it as revenge.
Hey doll. First of all take a breath. Seriously. Be kind to yourself here. What would you tell your best friend? You would tell them that a university degree isn’t everything and that they need to prioritize happiness over success. School is expensive and stressful enough as it is, and without direction, it can feel like an insurmountable task. It is totally okay to not know what you want to do, and to be intimidated by people who have dreams that have steps to follow. There’s a great podcast called Psychology Of Your Twenties – it discusses all the massive emotional and mental changes we go through in this time frame, in really easy, compassionate and comprehensive ways. The host does one about feeling directionless and I think you would really like it. As for your parents – sweetheart, people fail courses and drop out of school all the time. It will have happened to your dad and your siblings, whether or not they will ever admit to it. Furthermore, your mom is a perfect example of the genuine help that can be offered to a community, regardless of education/certification. Going to university doesn’t inherently make you a better person. Focus on the things in your life that bring you joy. When in doubt, pursuing a volunteer role or travelling (even becoming a WOOFER or working in a hostel and living somewhere new) can help you find your path or lean into a more peaceful, simple existence. Your parents will project their feelings because they love you and want you to be successful. We just have to broaden their terminology and remind them that there are many roads to happiness. Take your time. Take your space. You are going to be okay. Sending you a virtual big ol squeeze and back tickles.
Lol, yeah. He is an 18 year old kid who if he went to his girlfriend’s parents house he probably didn’t come off perfectly himself.
Are you in a country that has access to abortion? Trust me you do not want to be connected to your abuser for the rest of your life via a baby.
I'm a bit confused as you seem to not wanting to show your boyfriend friendships with females. Over all long distance relationships require trust and communication otherwise it won't work. it is also important to keep living your own life as well.
If both parties still want for this to work I'd suggest couples therapy.
Break up, don't date her in the future.
I seriously cannot be bothered with apps and it’s so hot to meet people in my city. I’ll go back to solo life. Thank you 🙂