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Date: November 5, 2022
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I'm surprised by the responses tbh. I agree stonewalling and not speaking are toxic behaviors. If she had said I need some time to process before we talk about this….or I'm feeling triggered and need some space to figure some things out. That is one thing and even then I would think that warrants a discussion. But assuming you two have been together a while since you mentioned she may move out, I would hope my partner in a serious relationship would want to work through something like this with me…even if they ultimately decided they couldn't stay in the relationship.
Ultimately, though, this has been a shocking thing for the both of you. So you both deserve some grace with your initial reactions. You have every right to feel hurt by her response. But take a deep brearh before lashing out in anger. Talk to her…find out why she responded this way, why she was stonewalling you and then express how that made you feel and how you would have hoped you could have come together to handle this information as a team. If you have had a happy and healthy relationship up to this point and the stonewalling is something she does not normally do, no I personally don't agree it's a walk away offense by itself. I am someone who needs space sometimes and used to be the ignore/stonewalling person until I worked with my partner on how to get the space I need to organize my thoughts and feelings without shutting him out.
I get where you are coming from… But let me give you the opinion of someone who found out her dad wasn’t her dad..
Get the DNA test and do it now.
Yes I love my Dad to pieces he is the most amazing man in the world, especially raising a child who was not his by blood but by choice. Even after him and my mother divorced.
But finding out I was lied to by not only by my mother, but by my dad. Fucking rocked my world, and I was 8 years old.
My father (birth dad and I) do not have a close relationship because he came in trying to replace my dad and I rejected him.
You don’t need to be her dad, but you can start by being her friend and gaining her trust.
Cause if she finds out later in life, and that you knew about her from the time she was 11. Your relationship if you want one, will never be on good terms.
I'm sorry. Try posting on a legal advice sub reddit, but get him some professional help first.
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Damn she is gross. I’d feel better for you if you actually had access to the same person all these other men get. You are like a second class citizen to this woman. You should leave her.
Your description of the situation is spot on.
It does suck to have all the responsibility but no authority with step kids. It sucks to know that the other home and kids are using up all of the resources—time and money—and that big decisions like having more kids are pretty much made for you. It can feel kind of yucky to know that your time and money are used/impacted doing things you don’t want to do.