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Date: October 7, 2022
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These are concerns to be mentioned to a lawyer- You may want to edit this post because I was like “who is “she”?” And it took me a while of reading to figure out who you were referring to.
Anyways, She was mentally unhealthy to begin with, so naturally (and unfortunately), she’s going to carry those same mentally unhealthy and toxic ways in dealing with the kids also.
Document, document, document. And, Get the 8yr old in counseling- the 4 is too young.
Set boundaries, also. I’m not sure why she’s still living there, but that needs to be addressed also.
Well it is 4 am EST. Probably not a lot of traffic here yet.
But it really, really concerns me how many of the comments here don’t see this as a problem. Like he’s not allowed to do what he wants with his own body, he has to do what she wants regardless of his own desires. And on his BIRTHDAY! It’s… honestly, it’s really creeping me out. Like, i generally do not care for the “oh if the genders were flipped” thing because i feel like gender adds a cultural context to some behaviour that can’t really be reversed easily. But can you imagine if a woman came home from work and her husband started yelling at her because he wanted something from her that she didn’t feel like providing?
Sometimes I get the vibe that there are people sorting by new on relationship advice subreddits so they can give advice that validates their own manipulative behaviours.
If you can't afford it, then don't do it. Tell him, “I can't afford to pay for this, so I guess we are sleeping in the car.” Stick to your guns.
Your Mum is right. Don’t waste your 20’s on a broke much older man imo.
I think your mom is on to something.
No because you’re 18 + don’t have much experience with female sexuality in general yet
Also, if I remember volleyball or any sport practice from middle and high school properly… lots of sports bras and spandex was involved, I wouldn't think anything about a teen or preteen wearing such things for sport?
I’m a bit biased but no, just no.
You brought it up. You are doing the side tracking. You're also a hypocrite.
Now I have the Patty Duke theme running through my head…
You can't change someone who acts like that to everyone by choice. He might be your baby brother, but he also a human being with his own thoughts and opinions. There is no way to change someone without violating boundaries and being forceful. You can express your feelings to him, but if he doesn't change by his decision then there is nothing you can do and you need to focus on other things like yourself in life. When your life is based on how other people behave or react, you are pretty likely to end up in a terrible place. It should depend on yourself and what you do. Cause ultimately the only one who can make you happy is you.