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Oh dude, start by kicking your MIL out. Setting clear boundaries, your wife and MIL sound toxic as hell. If money is not an issue, get a nanny, but MIL has to go. Step your foot down there. Also their view on disabilities and autism is very uninformed and harmful, cannot imagine a child growing up and listening to that. This is not a healthy marriage and general environment. Your wife sounds like she's stuck in some post soviet mindset regarding everything at this point.
>>But, one trait that's causing a clash is his ''Brutal Honesty''
Oh, so he's just an asshole.
All of those comments he made? He was straight-up negging you because he thought it would break down your self-esteem so you wouldn't think you could do better than him.
>>he cried because he hadn't realised he was hurting me
He sits upon a throne of lies. Don't date people who neg you. If you're healthy mentally & emotionally, the first sign of negging is not a signal to “get closer & PROVE to this person that I am all that!” it's a signal to “distance with prejudice because neggers are emotionally manipulative & can do long-term damage.”
I understand how bad my post sounds. It just fucking sucks at the holidays that I'm “not allowed” to be with my family (no matter who in my family hosted Christmas stuff he would be there).
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She probably is playing for time or plans her exit. She herself said that she isn't afraid to leave and doesn't see any fault at her side. And don't listen to her to be private about it, I bet some money that she isn't.
Just break up OP. You guys aren't soul mates. Suffering is part of life, this will be naked, but it will be way harder if you drag your feet and wait more years before doing what you know is right. I wish I had done so, I could have saved 11 years of heartache.
I did several things for this: some foreplay, oral for her, keeping my mind off, second wind (going more than the first ejaculation). I then settled to foreplay + oral + second wind. You might need a short break for your penis, but you can fill the time with some fingering and kissing
So you didn’t contact her for a week and didn’t even bother to send just like, a heads up message?? Yeah, I’d think you lost interest as well and were well on your way out. Of course she isn’t going to contact you if you seem disinterested. Why waste each others time? Sounds like you just need to learn some better communication skills and not be passive aggressive. If you’re busy just shoot a message. You can’t expect someone to wait around after you’ve disappeared for a week with not even just a little explanation. You don’t really owe anyone anything but some common decency is nice.
Is it causing a financial problem? Is she gaining weight and complaining about it? While it doesn’t sound healthy per say, it isn’t fully your place. Maybe she’s stressed about something and is eating to cope. Maybe she has a hormone imbalance and the extra sugar is giving her energy that she’s not fueling properly.
Maybe approach this from a household point of view of trying to be more aware of food and health. For instance, buy her a popcorn maker and kernels. It doesn’t need much oil at all to pop and has way less crap than the bags of popcorn. Find a recipient or a high protein high fiber cookie and ask her to try making that instead.
I'm tearing up reading this. I'm so unbelievably sorry that you were betrayed like that by someone you trusted. You say you have a close relationship with your mom. It sounds like she will be on your side and that maybe the thing you're most worried about is this getting blown up? There is no way around her being hurt, upset, enraged- I feel that for you and I don't even know you.
She knows something is up. She will believe you, and she will support you. I would suggest laying out how you prefer she reacts before getting into what happened to you… like, let her know that you have something very serious to talk about with her that is upsetting. that you are worried about how she will react, but you want/need her support right now. Other than that I don't know, this is heartbreaking. I'm so mad and sad for you. I want you to report him, and your mom will want that too. Don't feel like you need to do anything you aren't comfortable with. Therapy is another resource you should look into if you are able to afford it. Good luck, I hope that you are able to process and work through this trauma with the support of your mom
Oh dude, start by kicking your MIL out. Setting clear boundaries, your wife and MIL sound toxic as hell. If money is not an issue, get a nanny, but MIL has to go. Step your foot down there. Also their view on disabilities and autism is very uninformed and harmful, cannot imagine a child growing up and listening to that. This is not a healthy marriage and general environment. Your wife sounds like she's stuck in some post soviet mindset regarding everything at this point.
>>But, one trait that's causing a clash is his ''Brutal Honesty''
Oh, so he's just an asshole.
All of those comments he made? He was straight-up negging you because he thought it would break down your self-esteem so you wouldn't think you could do better than him.
>>he cried because he hadn't realised he was hurting me
He sits upon a throne of lies. Don't date people who neg you. If you're healthy mentally & emotionally, the first sign of negging is not a signal to “get closer & PROVE to this person that I am all that!” it's a signal to “distance with prejudice because neggers are emotionally manipulative & can do long-term damage.”
I understand how bad my post sounds. It just fucking sucks at the holidays that I'm “not allowed” to be with my family (no matter who in my family hosted Christmas stuff he would be there).
My wife gets her family at Christmas.
You sure as hell sound like an abuse victim though. Read back what your post is about, and this comment but pretend it isn’t you that typed it out.
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She not only attacked you with a weapon but then called the cops on you.
Unless your plan is to have a relationship full of stress, violence, and uncertainty… dump her!
She probably is playing for time or plans her exit. She herself said that she isn't afraid to leave and doesn't see any fault at her side. And don't listen to her to be private about it, I bet some money that she isn't.
Just break up OP. You guys aren't soul mates. Suffering is part of life, this will be naked, but it will be way harder if you drag your feet and wait more years before doing what you know is right. I wish I had done so, I could have saved 11 years of heartache.
That'd be nice, but I'd prefer to receive them as potted plants. It'd be a shame to just see them wither – I'd much rather keep them.
Thank you! I needed to hear this
Sack up and provide for your wife. She shouldn’t be working, and you should be doing better for your family
She likes only chicken?
I did several things for this: some foreplay, oral for her, keeping my mind off, second wind (going more than the first ejaculation). I then settled to foreplay + oral + second wind. You might need a short break for your penis, but you can fill the time with some fingering and kissing
So you didn’t contact her for a week and didn’t even bother to send just like, a heads up message?? Yeah, I’d think you lost interest as well and were well on your way out. Of course she isn’t going to contact you if you seem disinterested. Why waste each others time? Sounds like you just need to learn some better communication skills and not be passive aggressive. If you’re busy just shoot a message. You can’t expect someone to wait around after you’ve disappeared for a week with not even just a little explanation. You don’t really owe anyone anything but some common decency is nice.
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Is it causing a financial problem? Is she gaining weight and complaining about it? While it doesn’t sound healthy per say, it isn’t fully your place. Maybe she’s stressed about something and is eating to cope. Maybe she has a hormone imbalance and the extra sugar is giving her energy that she’s not fueling properly.
Maybe approach this from a household point of view of trying to be more aware of food and health. For instance, buy her a popcorn maker and kernels. It doesn’t need much oil at all to pop and has way less crap than the bags of popcorn. Find a recipient or a high protein high fiber cookie and ask her to try making that instead.
I'm tearing up reading this. I'm so unbelievably sorry that you were betrayed like that by someone you trusted. You say you have a close relationship with your mom. It sounds like she will be on your side and that maybe the thing you're most worried about is this getting blown up? There is no way around her being hurt, upset, enraged- I feel that for you and I don't even know you.
She knows something is up. She will believe you, and she will support you. I would suggest laying out how you prefer she reacts before getting into what happened to you… like, let her know that you have something very serious to talk about with her that is upsetting. that you are worried about how she will react, but you want/need her support right now. Other than that I don't know, this is heartbreaking. I'm so mad and sad for you. I want you to report him, and your mom will want that too. Don't feel like you need to do anything you aren't comfortable with. Therapy is another resource you should look into if you are able to afford it. Good luck, I hope that you are able to process and work through this trauma with the support of your mom