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Less disappointment probably sums it up. I feel like I put in alot of energy in to them and never get it back. Its less that I want nothing to do with them and more I don't have the energy to keep on walking on egg shells and pretend it's all okay. You are right of course it has to be my decision what happens
Well fuck.. I'm sorry that happened to you really!
but i dont think that helps OP. It won't get her out of this mess she's in.
id rather just you know be married to a man that only wants to be with me.. as a woman and not go on holiday's with his bf and then move him into my home.
I'd end up burning all his shit on the lawn and telling everyone he can have the house for his bf then. Bt i love myself too much to see all these red flags the size of China and still convince myself It's a marriage..
There is an undercurrent of fear in your comments.
Does he react with anger when you argue with him?
Honey, love doesn't have to be like this. Love is compromise. It's choosing daily to take care of your partners needs. It's choosing to treat them with love and respect at all times, even when you're mad or frustrated.
You shouldn't have to tiptoe around your partners feelings.
Okay OP, as someone who grew up with a father like this, I'll tell you what the best thing he did for me; he left my life never to return. As a teenager I did and said so many reprehensible things because I thought it was normal. My dad normalised mental abuse and it still carries with me to this day.
My mum always thought it was better to stay with him for me. But in reality, the best thing for me was to not have him in my life.
If you can't weed this behaviour out, it's unfortunately the decision you'll have to make for your child.
Less disappointment probably sums it up. I feel like I put in alot of energy in to them and never get it back. Its less that I want nothing to do with them and more I don't have the energy to keep on walking on egg shells and pretend it's all okay. You are right of course it has to be my decision what happens
Well fuck.. I'm sorry that happened to you really!
but i dont think that helps OP. It won't get her out of this mess she's in.
id rather just you know be married to a man that only wants to be with me.. as a woman and not go on holiday's with his bf and then move him into my home.
I'd end up burning all his shit on the lawn and telling everyone he can have the house for his bf then. Bt i love myself too much to see all these red flags the size of China and still convince myself It's a marriage..
No thank u.
Yes.. accept the gift.
she has explicitly said that she expects this from me now.
Ask her parents what they think
Please leave him. He won't change
You sound like the kind of idiot that would make the same mistake twice. Move on and let her do the same.
There is an undercurrent of fear in your comments.
Does he react with anger when you argue with him?
Honey, love doesn't have to be like this. Love is compromise. It's choosing daily to take care of your partners needs. It's choosing to treat them with love and respect at all times, even when you're mad or frustrated.
You shouldn't have to tiptoe around your partners feelings.
Seriously, are you going to entertain thar?
Okay OP, as someone who grew up with a father like this, I'll tell you what the best thing he did for me; he left my life never to return. As a teenager I did and said so many reprehensible things because I thought it was normal. My dad normalised mental abuse and it still carries with me to this day.
My mum always thought it was better to stay with him for me. But in reality, the best thing for me was to not have him in my life.
If you can't weed this behaviour out, it's unfortunately the decision you'll have to make for your child.