Well I'm French and the idea that someone I pursue with being romantically involved in sight is fucking someone else is beyond my dealbreaking level.
If we are clear we are casual until maybe something else then OK we both can hookup. But if I'm clear I'm more invested than just see where it goes and she bangs someone else then I'm done.
I hadn’t decided that this relationship was ending until very recently. I don’t have a plan. I burned all bridges with my side of the family when my mom died because they are all dicks. Also, I’m the family secretary I have access to all documents more so than him. I have 1 friend in Texas that would help me. But I can’t take my children out of the state without a judges permission or he could report me for kidnapping if I tried to just leave. And leaving my kids isn’t something I can do.
I don’t want to leave I don’t want to divorce my husband I want him to be decent. This shit hurts like hell, especially when I know that everyone on here is right that I need to leave him.
Body types go in and out of style every couple years, if not more often. This surgery is dangerous and I personally think people should not get it until after age 25 since your body and mind is still growing and changing until then (and even after then). I know getting one seems like it will change your life now, but changing your body won’t necessarily help change how you view yourself mentally. You’re still very young and deserve more with your life than a man who makes you feel bad about yourself. If you feel loved now, imagine someone who makes you feel that way and more without the negative sides of your current boyfriend.
It's complicated to contact her. She is showing you that she doesn't want to talk to you, the message is clear! If you message her, it means that you are not respecting her and you are crossing her boundaries.
Can't give you advice on that. You need to be a jerk in order to try to win her back and fight for a relationship…
Maybe in two weeks or a month, you say something like this:
I'm disrespecting your boundaries of no contact and I'm being selfish because my feelings for you are real and I would like to fight for our relationship.
I understand how I betrayed your trust and it's important to me to apologize for hurting you.
Knowing what happened with your ex and doing the same thing to you is a huge mistake on my part. You didn't deserve that. I felt horrible when I realized what I did, I completely understand that I'm a liar and you are right when you don't trust me anymore. I was also lying to myself and making excuses in my own head for what I did.
Please message me back when you are ready to hear me. I understand you need time and space away from me, I know that messaging you is wrong but I need to come clean and see if we can repair our relationship or decide to move on our separate ways.
I’m gonna go against the grain here and say that you should not ghost him and you should seek the closure you want. BUT you should only do this if you KNOW you’re fully capable of still walking away.
It’s clear to me that you want closure from him and I believe you’ll drive yourself crazy wondering if he had a good explanation if you leave this with no goodbye.
However, please know that there is no good explanation here.
It’s not a catfish account (it has his current info) and there is no excuse in him seeking other partners outside of your relationship. There is no coming back from this. If you keep him in your life in any capacity, he will do this again.
I’m sorry you’ve been hurt, but please know that you deserve better and there are people who will give you better.
There are probably better subreddits to seek advice on personal growth and learning how to say what you feel in the moment.
From a relationship perspective, properly receiving love, attention and affection is just as important as knowing how to give it. You have to be clear about what you want in order to give your partner peace of mind.
Its okay to be selfish. You're supposed to look out for yourself, first and foremost. You are valuable and your needs and wants are important. Ultimately adjusting to that mindset takes time and practice – there's no special trick to it.
There's a good chance that's she's exploring her options??…may be she's going on a few other dates as well, but don't want to completely drop you and tether you along to see which one suits her requirements??
Guys like you should be deballed and then dipped in acid. If anything remains pigs should finish the deed.
Well I'm French and the idea that someone I pursue with being romantically involved in sight is fucking someone else is beyond my dealbreaking level.
If we are clear we are casual until maybe something else then OK we both can hookup. But if I'm clear I'm more invested than just see where it goes and she bangs someone else then I'm done.
I hadn’t decided that this relationship was ending until very recently. I don’t have a plan. I burned all bridges with my side of the family when my mom died because they are all dicks. Also, I’m the family secretary I have access to all documents more so than him. I have 1 friend in Texas that would help me. But I can’t take my children out of the state without a judges permission or he could report me for kidnapping if I tried to just leave. And leaving my kids isn’t something I can do.
I don’t want to leave I don’t want to divorce my husband I want him to be decent. This shit hurts like hell, especially when I know that everyone on here is right that I need to leave him.
Body types go in and out of style every couple years, if not more often. This surgery is dangerous and I personally think people should not get it until after age 25 since your body and mind is still growing and changing until then (and even after then). I know getting one seems like it will change your life now, but changing your body won’t necessarily help change how you view yourself mentally. You’re still very young and deserve more with your life than a man who makes you feel bad about yourself. If you feel loved now, imagine someone who makes you feel that way and more without the negative sides of your current boyfriend.
What?
It's complicated to contact her. She is showing you that she doesn't want to talk to you, the message is clear! If you message her, it means that you are not respecting her and you are crossing her boundaries.
Can't give you advice on that. You need to be a jerk in order to try to win her back and fight for a relationship…
Maybe in two weeks or a month, you say something like this:
I'm disrespecting your boundaries of no contact and I'm being selfish because my feelings for you are real and I would like to fight for our relationship.
I understand how I betrayed your trust and it's important to me to apologize for hurting you.
Knowing what happened with your ex and doing the same thing to you is a huge mistake on my part. You didn't deserve that. I felt horrible when I realized what I did, I completely understand that I'm a liar and you are right when you don't trust me anymore. I was also lying to myself and making excuses in my own head for what I did.
Please message me back when you are ready to hear me. I understand you need time and space away from me, I know that messaging you is wrong but I need to come clean and see if we can repair our relationship or decide to move on our separate ways.
What’s more important than a divorce is the safety of the child.
what the fuck is 11 stone
I’m gonna go against the grain here and say that you should not ghost him and you should seek the closure you want. BUT you should only do this if you KNOW you’re fully capable of still walking away.
It’s clear to me that you want closure from him and I believe you’ll drive yourself crazy wondering if he had a good explanation if you leave this with no goodbye.
However, please know that there is no good explanation here.
It’s not a catfish account (it has his current info) and there is no excuse in him seeking other partners outside of your relationship. There is no coming back from this. If you keep him in your life in any capacity, he will do this again.
I’m sorry you’ve been hurt, but please know that you deserve better and there are people who will give you better.
Good luck ❤️
Yeah absolutely I would tell them, tf?
There are probably better subreddits to seek advice on personal growth and learning how to say what you feel in the moment.
From a relationship perspective, properly receiving love, attention and affection is just as important as knowing how to give it. You have to be clear about what you want in order to give your partner peace of mind.
Its okay to be selfish. You're supposed to look out for yourself, first and foremost. You are valuable and your needs and wants are important. Ultimately adjusting to that mindset takes time and practice – there's no special trick to it.
Why would you stay with someone like that? Are you being forced?
There's a good chance that's she's exploring her options??…may be she's going on a few other dates as well, but don't want to completely drop you and tether you along to see which one suits her requirements??
May be??