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How does the contract prevent her from not enjoying the experience and then resenting you for it? It doesn't prevent that at all. It doesn't prevent her from breaking up with you over it.
The only thing a 'contract' does give you any security for is being accused of assault legally, and so asking her to sign is, yes, suggesting that you think she might ask for this and then later accuse you of assault.
Don't do it if you're not comfortable, but it's not great to level an accusation like that at someone even if you didn't do it directly.
I hope you realize that this is very telling about the relationship he has with your wife. If he’s afraid to meet you then there’s something going on that you won’t like.
Crush is the probable explanstion. Thus itself isn't that big of an issue, but you should tell him, that when you know he is lting to you it makes you lose trust in him in other areas as well. It can't continue.
I’m going to talk to him about it today, since she just asked him to go to a music festival with her. Like girl, what does your husband think of all this?? I agree is unacceptable but just felt weird because I’m not close to my family nor my family’s friends so I didn’t know really if that was normal behavior or not, but since it makes me so uncomfortable, I need to say something and he needs to know that it’s not OK.
I did go to therapy. I can tolerate my misophonia and my nail aversion for an hour maybe, which renders my misophonia as almost non-existent, since I don't have to listen to people chewing gum for hours usually. But seeing someone constantly with painted nails is really tough for my brain.
It's been about a year and a half since Kelly died.
Robbie knows a bit. I've turned down a few invitations in the past due to my fear of how I'll do in overcrowded situations. A few times he convinced me to go and he or Kelly held my hand or took me away from the crowd if I got overstimulated.
We haven't talked no. He said a lot of things afterwards but I didn't hear many of them. I just kept repeating in my head that I was making my friend feel better. He told me that he really cared about me and he felt better when I was there. He's acting like he normally does towards me.
Anyway, time passed and she messaged me this morning, saying she is sorry I feel this way. She said she wants to improve. Then she asked, “Do you want to make it work?”.
This is very manipulative. So by her question, does it mean that the burden of making it work is on you now?
Everyone is allowed to have their own dealbreakers in a relationship. This is as good as any. And if you don’t see yourself being able to live with her selfish ways, then why continue with this relationship?
I’m wondering if I should tell our mom. My sister lied and told her those where grocery and apartment stuff my mom can only see the monthly amount on our cards she trusts us to not check each purchase.
Our parents are getting older and working two jobs to keep us in college and my sister is making secret extravagant purchases on the credit card they gave like purchasing expensive weight loss equipments and powders without working out while buying doordash daily. She spends thousands of dollars on these type of stuff monthly and it’s putting both my college and my mom’s health in danger.
It’s very hot on my mom who had cancer and isn’t suppose to strain herself because health issues could worsen and kill her. If I tell my mom I know she would sit my sister down for a talk and start placing limits. I know it’s between her and my parents but I really think it would be better for the both of them.
Your fiancée killed your relationship in front of you, you overreacted and said something mean, and now you're in the bargaining stage of grieving the death of your relationship. All your hurtful words did was make the death uglier than it could've been, it was already dead.
You don't just “lol oh btw nevermind on kids” with someone you had discussed it with and planned it with. It's like saying, “oh btw I want to be poly and I know the guy already” level shit.
You gave her an out to tell everyone how mean and abusive you are, but it doesn't matter. This was over anyway.
She doesn't want kids. You do.
Do not try to save this by pretending you don't. You have no idea what the next 50 years is like; you can romanticize that away in your head now, especially in your emotional panic, but you don't actually want 50+ years of holding hands in a field with her alone.
Do you on-line together and split bills? Would her money be going into the motorcycle or will you be unable to pay joint bills because of it therefore affecting her?
What kind of a clown dates a student and then gets mad when she literally has no money. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes? Like of course she isn’t gonna have money and of course when offered free food she is gonna take it, she’s A STUDENT. You are a THIRTY YEAR OLD MAN WITH A JOB.
How does the contract prevent her from not enjoying the experience and then resenting you for it? It doesn't prevent that at all. It doesn't prevent her from breaking up with you over it.
The only thing a 'contract' does give you any security for is being accused of assault legally, and so asking her to sign is, yes, suggesting that you think she might ask for this and then later accuse you of assault.
Don't do it if you're not comfortable, but it's not great to level an accusation like that at someone even if you didn't do it directly.
I hope you realize that this is very telling about the relationship he has with your wife. If he’s afraid to meet you then there’s something going on that you won’t like.
Crush is the probable explanstion. Thus itself isn't that big of an issue, but you should tell him, that when you know he is lting to you it makes you lose trust in him in other areas as well. It can't continue.
I’m going to talk to him about it today, since she just asked him to go to a music festival with her. Like girl, what does your husband think of all this?? I agree is unacceptable but just felt weird because I’m not close to my family nor my family’s friends so I didn’t know really if that was normal behavior or not, but since it makes me so uncomfortable, I need to say something and he needs to know that it’s not OK.
I did go to therapy. I can tolerate my misophonia and my nail aversion for an hour maybe, which renders my misophonia as almost non-existent, since I don't have to listen to people chewing gum for hours usually. But seeing someone constantly with painted nails is really tough for my brain.
It's been about a year and a half since Kelly died.
Robbie knows a bit. I've turned down a few invitations in the past due to my fear of how I'll do in overcrowded situations. A few times he convinced me to go and he or Kelly held my hand or took me away from the crowd if I got overstimulated.
We haven't talked no. He said a lot of things afterwards but I didn't hear many of them. I just kept repeating in my head that I was making my friend feel better. He told me that he really cared about me and he felt better when I was there. He's acting like he normally does towards me.
Anyway, time passed and she messaged me this morning, saying she is sorry I feel this way. She said she wants to improve. Then she asked, “Do you want to make it work?”.
This is very manipulative. So by her question, does it mean that the burden of making it work is on you now?
Everyone is allowed to have their own dealbreakers in a relationship. This is as good as any. And if you don’t see yourself being able to live with her selfish ways, then why continue with this relationship?
Are you sure she wants to have more kids?
Sounds like you need to work on how you raise topics. This should have been a simple question, not a “confrontation”.
I’m wondering if I should tell our mom. My sister lied and told her those where grocery and apartment stuff my mom can only see the monthly amount on our cards she trusts us to not check each purchase.
Our parents are getting older and working two jobs to keep us in college and my sister is making secret extravagant purchases on the credit card they gave like purchasing expensive weight loss equipments and powders without working out while buying doordash daily. She spends thousands of dollars on these type of stuff monthly and it’s putting both my college and my mom’s health in danger.
It’s very hot on my mom who had cancer and isn’t suppose to strain herself because health issues could worsen and kill her. If I tell my mom I know she would sit my sister down for a talk and start placing limits. I know it’s between her and my parents but I really think it would be better for the both of them.
Your fiancée killed your relationship in front of you, you overreacted and said something mean, and now you're in the bargaining stage of grieving the death of your relationship. All your hurtful words did was make the death uglier than it could've been, it was already dead.
You don't just “lol oh btw nevermind on kids” with someone you had discussed it with and planned it with. It's like saying, “oh btw I want to be poly and I know the guy already” level shit.
You gave her an out to tell everyone how mean and abusive you are, but it doesn't matter. This was over anyway.
She doesn't want kids. You do.
Do not try to save this by pretending you don't. You have no idea what the next 50 years is like; you can romanticize that away in your head now, especially in your emotional panic, but you don't actually want 50+ years of holding hands in a field with her alone.
Do you on-line together and split bills? Would her money be going into the motorcycle or will you be unable to pay joint bills because of it therefore affecting her?
What kind of a clown dates a student and then gets mad when she literally has no money. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes? Like of course she isn’t gonna have money and of course when offered free food she is gonna take it, she’s A STUDENT. You are a THIRTY YEAR OLD MAN WITH A JOB.