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Handle it by telling her good luck in her future endeavors but that is one of your lines in the sand, if she can't just stop the behavior immediately then it's over.
Btw. If he was your person OP, this wouldn’t be happening. Maybe he is but not the right time. Move on girl, seems like this best friend will always be. Problem.
You need to grow a backbone and leave. The fact that she's cheating on you and exploring sexual shit with other dudes that she'd never do with you means you're not that guy for her.
If you're in a relationship and you're not “that guy” , the sexy Chad for her then you need to leave and find someone you are the Chad for.
The fact that you've allowed yourself and your relationship to be disrespected in such a way is a bad role model for your child. You need to face life head on and dump this woman and face the unknowns about life. Get a lawyer and work on getting her kicked out the house.
I understand that financially you're going to struggle but is that worth being miserable for the remainder of the house loan and modeling whatever messed up relationship dynamics to your kids?.
I agree with the suggestion of resuming contact with your family. They may or may not be supportive about you having a baby or being a single mother, but without contact, you will never know.
Lots of women have raised children with little or no support from the bio fathers or family members. It is difficult & many sacrifices would have to be made, but it can be done. The question is, are you prepared to make those sacrifices?
On the other hand… Why isn't anyone suggesting the possibility of giving the child up for adoption? Adoption is another option that could be considered when there is an unplanned pregnancy rather than suffering to raise the child alone or to kill the embryo before it has a chance to become the child it could be.
Sorry Reddit monitors, but fuck compromise. Find a good attorney, and get a PI. Build your case and liberate yourself from your dumpster of a husband. Get your exit strategy ready to execute.
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So as the title says my girlfriend went and hangout with a guy friend (I know redflag) she doesn't have alot of friends so I gave them him the benefit of the doubt this was about a week and a half ago. 4 days ago she came to me in the morning crying telling me he tried to kiss her but she pulled away and came home, I wasn't mad at her but we put some boundaries in place, fastforward to yesterday we were discussing the situation again and I noticed some awkward body language coming from, after prying a little she confessed that he tried to kiss her again and she kissed him back. She said she felt guilty immediately and left. I'm her first boyfriend we've been together for almost 2 years, she said she was curious, I don't really know what advice I'm looking for but these are some questions I've been asking myself. Is this not a super big deal? Am I making a big deal out of somthing not that bad? Is our relationship salvageable? Can things go back to normal?
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Handle it by telling her good luck in her future endeavors but that is one of your lines in the sand, if she can't just stop the behavior immediately then it's over.
You're sending her mixed signals. Its pretty clear what she wants wnd you know it. You will have to nip it in the bud ASAP.
Btw. If he was your person OP, this wouldn’t be happening. Maybe he is but not the right time. Move on girl, seems like this best friend will always be. Problem.
I’m using my kids as sticking plasters 👍🏼 thanks
You need to grow a backbone and leave. The fact that she's cheating on you and exploring sexual shit with other dudes that she'd never do with you means you're not that guy for her.
If you're in a relationship and you're not “that guy” , the sexy Chad for her then you need to leave and find someone you are the Chad for.
The fact that you've allowed yourself and your relationship to be disrespected in such a way is a bad role model for your child. You need to face life head on and dump this woman and face the unknowns about life. Get a lawyer and work on getting her kicked out the house.
I understand that financially you're going to struggle but is that worth being miserable for the remainder of the house loan and modeling whatever messed up relationship dynamics to your kids?.
Can people just add you without requesting? I'd un-add him.
I agree with the suggestion of resuming contact with your family. They may or may not be supportive about you having a baby or being a single mother, but without contact, you will never know.
Lots of women have raised children with little or no support from the bio fathers or family members. It is difficult & many sacrifices would have to be made, but it can be done. The question is, are you prepared to make those sacrifices?
On the other hand… Why isn't anyone suggesting the possibility of giving the child up for adoption? Adoption is another option that could be considered when there is an unplanned pregnancy rather than suffering to raise the child alone or to kill the embryo before it has a chance to become the child it could be.
Drop that fool and count yourself lucky, OP
Trust is earned, not demanded and actions speak louder than words.
Both are valid much used phrases that ring true to this day
Sorry Reddit monitors, but fuck compromise. Find a good attorney, and get a PI. Build your case and liberate yourself from your dumpster of a husband. Get your exit strategy ready to execute.
If it’s this bad after six months, that should tell you something important.
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So as the title says my girlfriend went and hangout with a guy friend (I know redflag) she doesn't have alot of friends so I gave them him the benefit of the doubt this was about a week and a half ago. 4 days ago she came to me in the morning crying telling me he tried to kiss her but she pulled away and came home, I wasn't mad at her but we put some boundaries in place, fastforward to yesterday we were discussing the situation again and I noticed some awkward body language coming from, after prying a little she confessed that he tried to kiss her again and she kissed him back. She said she felt guilty immediately and left. I'm her first boyfriend we've been together for almost 2 years, she said she was curious, I don't really know what advice I'm looking for but these are some questions I've been asking myself. Is this not a super big deal? Am I making a big deal out of somthing not that bad? Is our relationship salvageable? Can things go back to normal?
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