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Date: October 9, 2022
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As a rule of thumb if it doesn't affect him at all, it's controlling. I mean he can break up with you for whatever reason but you shouldn't be asking permission to live your life
You said and I quote “2 weeks they do not have the foundation for open communication unless they’ve been friends” That makes no sense, unless this dude was going to ask her to marry him tell her she made him uncomfortable and that she crossed a boundary isn’t going to annul their relationship. Also I wouldn’t call this walking on eggshells because I’m not afraid of you being upset for me asking a question? That would only be true if I was afraid of hurting your feelings to find out why you think all of this. Also I haven’t insulted you multiple times? I’m just trying to figure out why keeping secrets and not telling your partner your boundaries are good things?
I got the 7 years from you since you’re the one with the amazing advice I thought you knew how long it would be until I can communicate properly in my relationship
Ever heard of a white lie?
If a girlfriend ask if she looks fat should I tell her yes?
What good comes from being brutally honest to such a question? He was obviously looking for reassurance and she couldn’t read the room well enough to know he wasn’t looking for the truth; he was looking for comfort.
Mostly because its a decision that would be unchangeable and I still love him and hope things will get better. I feel like we still have not given it enough of a chance. I left a lot of things behind and I would like to try everything I can before giving up and going back because it would be for good.
He doesnt want to move with me because he wants a break to hopefully catch feelings again.
It's likely that the dynamic between the OP and their partner is really off, with the OP playing the role of parent, and their partner playing the role of a child. The OP needs to find a way to change the whole dynamic of the relationship.
If the root of this problem is that the household tasks aren't being shared properly, the OP stopping doing more than their partner is perfectly reasonable, but that isn't a punishment. It's a perfectly adult response to your partner refusing to shoulder adult responsibility.
Your friends and family are correct. Time to block him as well
genuine people don't lie to you multiple times. you deserve better than this, OP.
Wait till you get older. Or when your relationship progresses. You can't quite control your hormones but just be safe.
No, you. You are the one who is accusing her of 'toxic moodiness'.
Read her text. Start there.
Therapy for both immediately! That poor baby is learning his fathers love is conditional and not that he is loved even though he made a bad choice. He is also learning that this is how husbands treat wives and dads treat their kids instead of loving open communication and conflict resolution. Finally your husband is being childish with this silent treatment bullshit proving his anger and his grudge are more important then his family. I don’t want to say give an ultimatum but let him know the steps you are willing to take to protect your son and he can either work just as very hot as you to resolve this or he can give you the silent treatment in his own place away from you both. Stand strong for yourself and your son. Your son will thank you for it later. Best of luck.
It does!
If you turn back now and reach out to make amends, you will have validated their views on everything. Stay back.
I've communicated to him that I will tell him to do things for me but not all the time bc it feels like he's only going to do it because I told him to . It's not the first or second or third time telling him what I would like . He simply says that's not him and doesn't do anything else to make me feel comfortable after . He gives me the silent treatment and then I feel bad bc if I didn't say anything We'd be good . Basically this whole relationship is mainly on his terms :/
Or maybe she just feels bad and doesn't want to hurt your feelings even more. Could be both tbh
Are most of the photos publicly accessible from your social media or did he take them himself? Both situations are creepy but the latter is more creepy especially considering the timeline.
He clearly just wants a punching bag ( emotionally). If it doesn’t feel right it is because it isn’t right. Also, you did not ruin his marriage. He was likely abusive towards her or committed infidelity with someone else. Innocent Questions like that don’t completely destroy strong marriages. Best of luck, you already know the answer.
I suspect that he was showing off a bit but also is flat out a shit driver.
Personally, that would be a dealbreaker for me. He’s going to get himself killed or harm someone else.