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what is the craziest that goes through your mind
Date: October 20, 2022
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Find a therapist. This behavior and the control your exerting over your boyfriend’s actions in the name of ‘security’ isn’t healthy for your relationship.
You're just going to have to let him go. It's a lose/lose for you. Fight him on it and you're the instigator.
If you're not totally cool with it, then you're not trusting enough.
If you break up with him then you're petty and jealous.
If you pretend to be cool with it, then you're denying your own feelings and creating internal pain.
The only way out is the spiritual way. Total acceptance. You cannot control him or how the trip goes. Whatever happens, happens. Let it go completely. Tell him you're not comfortable with it. Tell him that it will hurt you. Tell him that you don't need to justify your feelings. Leave it at that. The balls in his court.
And remember, anyone can cheat, leave the relationship, ghost you, or fall out of love at any time for any reason.
We never go through each others' phones, and if I ask now she'll definitely be suspicious that I am thinking about my stepfather. Any texts that they have she'll delete. Getting my stepfather's phone is out of the question, too, for the same reason. I don't know the password, so I can't just take it when he's not paying attention.
Maybe you’re over analyzing things where you will talk yourself out of it. Analysis paralysis. Open up to threesome or do something fun. She might get bored in this relationship
I feel you, it's a tough pill to swallow when you're into someone and they're not feeling the same way. But at the same time, it's not fair for you to invest all your time and love into someone who isn't reciprocating. You deserve to be with someone who's on the same page as you.
As for this dude, it sounds like he's not really down for a relationship but also doesn't want you seeing other people. That's some major mixed signals and it's not cool for him to call you manipulative or toxic for wanting to have a clear idea of what's going on. It's important for people to communicate and be upfront about what they want. If he's not down for a relationship, that's fine, but he needs to be honest about that from the start and not get mad when you want to explore other options.
It's good that you're being honest and standing up for yourself. It's not toxic to want to be in a mutual and healthy relationship. And as for the “socially awkward” thing, that's no excuse for him to be unclear about what he wants.
You do you bro, don't let this dude drag you down. If he can't give you the answers and clarity you need, it might be time to move on and find someone who will.
I think most adults who work full time + need the unwind time in the evening doing something kind of mindless.
We have a date night on Friday and usually it’s just us at home playing cribbage and visiting, listening to good music, and having some drinks. On the weekend, we clean together and usually at least take the dogs for a walk or visit his grandparents or plan some kind of activity. Once a month we take a weekend trip to our cabin and hang with friends and fish.
I dunno. I also have kind of a time consuming hobby and do a lot of volunteer work. My partner prefers to spend more of his downtime after dinner watching videos or TV and we are usually in bed by 8 or 9 as we have to be up early.
I guess I’d suggest cribbage, dominoes, doing a puzzle together, taking a walk, something that isn’t huge effort but doesn’t involve screens.
So I started experiencing some weird brain issues involving my appearance around covid. I got so body neutral I lost the ability to properly perceive myself. I’ve mitigated it a lot by dressing exactly how I wanted to, which is oddly, but I unbelievably fun. My friends, partners, family, and even strangers have been so unbelievably supportive. I would not choose to be around people who thought so lowly of something that made me feel safe and happy. It can be so freeing to be yourself, don’t let some lame dude stop you from pursing what makes you happy
Everything you said made sense! Thank you!
Then you put your tail between your legs because you're afraid of divorce.
She tried to pregnancy trap you thats a red flag factory. Just get out man and dont look back
I highly recommend sitting him down and asking him what's going on these days. I am a 32m, and I have worked 14-16 hour days 6 days a week for 2 years straight, with only Sunday morning off from work to attend church. Working like that hurts a person's soul. I implore you to take that chance and ask him if he is OK. Because you would be surprised. This is how us men act a lot of the time when we are in pain about something emotionally.