Because there are? If you don't want an honest answer don't ask an honest question? If you need smoke blown up your ass and to be lied to, preface your need to feel attractive with “ok give me an honest answer but don't be honest please lie to me to make me feel pretty”.
That doesn't stop a lawsuit from happening and she would have a damn good case. This isnt about “social relations” this is a legal standpoint that a lack of HR isn't going to help her case
So like you said she trusted the co-worker when she chose to go into the room right? She trusted that all they were gonna do was make out.
THAT is the decision that caused her to become a cheater and anything that happened after that, whether what the co-worker did was rape or not, she lost OP as soon as she made that decision and she doesn't get to expect sympathy from OP amymore and the fact that you're trying to force him to sympathize with her is disgusting
Say the sex never happened and all they did do was make out, OP would still be feeling just as betrayed, hurt and confused because that is the main issue
Trying to shift the issue into being helping her with her possible rape is wrong
It hurts when your partner decides not to care about your boundaries. In a healthy relationship, there is no room for such a (repeated) behavior. You should think about what's best for you. In my opinion and experience, a partner that respects you and cares about you and vice versa is key. And it seems like he is not willing to do either or both of it.
Because there are? If you don't want an honest answer don't ask an honest question? If you need smoke blown up your ass and to be lied to, preface your need to feel attractive with “ok give me an honest answer but don't be honest please lie to me to make me feel pretty”.
That doesn't stop a lawsuit from happening and she would have a damn good case. This isnt about “social relations” this is a legal standpoint that a lack of HR isn't going to help her case
So like you said she trusted the co-worker when she chose to go into the room right? She trusted that all they were gonna do was make out.
THAT is the decision that caused her to become a cheater and anything that happened after that, whether what the co-worker did was rape or not, she lost OP as soon as she made that decision and she doesn't get to expect sympathy from OP amymore and the fact that you're trying to force him to sympathize with her is disgusting
Say the sex never happened and all they did do was make out, OP would still be feeling just as betrayed, hurt and confused because that is the main issue
Trying to shift the issue into being helping her with her possible rape is wrong
Bro needs dr Phil. Nothin else.
It hurts when your partner decides not to care about your boundaries. In a healthy relationship, there is no room for such a (repeated) behavior. You should think about what's best for you. In my opinion and experience, a partner that respects you and cares about you and vice versa is key. And it seems like he is not willing to do either or both of it.
So you basically think it's her fault, whether she's “not physically attractive enough” or because she doesn't demand sex, got it.
I bet you'd find a way to blame anything on this woman who has done absolutely nothing wrong beyond dating a selfish chump far too long.
If he's not attracted to her, that's 100% not her fault and it makes him absolutely disgusting to just use someone like that.