Definitely cops then. He is a violent individual. Your parents can get a restraining order, if he shows up again, he can go to jail. Going to a psychiatrist and getting involuntarily committed are not the same. Your parents need to start the process. Has he always been like this?
And that’s nice of you, but would he even be able to enjoy a vacation with what he’s going through? Wouldn’t his time be better spent job hunting than vacationing?
Yeah, I can get that. Just from reading this post it doesn't seem like she's in a good position mentally to be in a functioning relationship though. In the end you can't fix all her problems, she's going to have to do the very hot work on that herself.
I'm going to be a bit blunt here, so apologies in advance. I don't think women put anywhere near as much stock in looks as we do as men. So, the fact that you are in very good shape might work to a degree in attracting women but they are more invested in you as a person, generally speaking, when it comes to finding a mate.
Yes, it sucks that you are introverted and have issues socialising with others. It has held you back a lot until now and you must have had very lonely 20s and early 30s. The thing is that most people on the dating scene have gained a lot of experience during those periods of their life and know what they want from life and their spouses. Of course women your age are going to be more sexually experienced than you. But, if you find a woman that's 30 years old and mature as such, I don't think she would mind it that much if you are inexperienced in bed. If you are honest about it and you two connect, I'm sure most in their position would gladly show you the ropes
Maybe you come with even bigger baggage that most women your age, which would put women off dating you too. Take it from someone that also has a lot of issues in socialising and connecting with others, albeit to a lesser degree.
She is a strong person.
Definitely cops then. He is a violent individual. Your parents can get a restraining order, if he shows up again, he can go to jail. Going to a psychiatrist and getting involuntarily committed are not the same. Your parents need to start the process. Has he always been like this?
He didn't accuse you of cheating, you did cheat. And I'm pretty sure he's no longer your boyfriend.
And that’s nice of you, but would he even be able to enjoy a vacation with what he’s going through? Wouldn’t his time be better spent job hunting than vacationing?
Why weren’t you invited and did you ever actually stop her from going?
Yeah, I can get that. Just from reading this post it doesn't seem like she's in a good position mentally to be in a functioning relationship though. In the end you can't fix all her problems, she's going to have to do the very hot work on that herself.
I'm going to be a bit blunt here, so apologies in advance. I don't think women put anywhere near as much stock in looks as we do as men. So, the fact that you are in very good shape might work to a degree in attracting women but they are more invested in you as a person, generally speaking, when it comes to finding a mate.
Yes, it sucks that you are introverted and have issues socialising with others. It has held you back a lot until now and you must have had very lonely 20s and early 30s. The thing is that most people on the dating scene have gained a lot of experience during those periods of their life and know what they want from life and their spouses. Of course women your age are going to be more sexually experienced than you. But, if you find a woman that's 30 years old and mature as such, I don't think she would mind it that much if you are inexperienced in bed. If you are honest about it and you two connect, I'm sure most in their position would gladly show you the ropes
Maybe you come with even bigger baggage that most women your age, which would put women off dating you too. Take it from someone that also has a lot of issues in socialising and connecting with others, albeit to a lesser degree.