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Date: September 29, 2022
nah
Let sleeping dogs lie, if it comes up again when she is 18 simply say you trusted her biological mother's decision and respected her wishes.
She just seems like a poor character. It’s not a girl thing. There are guys who are just as self obsessed as she is.
It's a circling conversation becuase you're not having a conversation with her about it, you're trying to talk your way around her views and morals to convince her you should go without it negatively affecting you.
You're a selfish pos tbh.
Perfectly stated
You should not be forced into having a child you do not want. You may want to go the permanent route on that front. You do not want the same things and having a child should be a deal breaker for both of you.
If he’s ghosting you, don’t text him again. You reached out to him in your time of need and he ignored you, and is still ignoring you. His ghosting is a sign that he doesn’t care about you, doesn’t care about your problems, and doesn’t want to talk to you. When I’m seeing/dating somebody I’m really interested in, im always dying to hear from them. I dodge their messages and take 2+ days to reply.
Also I’m not sure what the deal is with ‘friends’ being in quotes, but that’s probably a separate matter huh
It’s too early for things to be this bad with no effort on his part.
Thank you.
Ecaf, your GF's strong abandonment fear — as well as her abusive and controlling behaviors — may be due to her having very weak control over her own emotions (i.e., a lack of emotional skills she had no opportunity to acquire in childhood). My exW has this problem. If that is an issue for your GF, you likely have been seeing 3 other warning signs.
First, you would be seeing her rely heavily on black-white thinking, wherein she tends to categorize some people as “all good” (“with me”) or “all bad” (“against me”) and will recategorize them — in just a few seconds — from one polar extreme to the other based on a minor infraction.
Because she also uses B-W thinking in judging HERSELF, she would rarely acknowledge making a mistake or having a flaw. Doing so would imply, in her mind, she is “all bad.” She thus would blame nearly all misfortunes and mistakes on you and view herself as “The Victim.”
Further, to validate her “victim” status, she would keep a detailed mental list of every infraction/mistake you ever did (real or imagined) and would not hesitate to pull out the entire list to defend herself in the smallest, most insignificant disagreement with you. Moreover, this B-W thinking also would be evident in her frequent use of all-or-nothing expressions like “you ALWAYS…” and “you NEVER….”
Second, you would not see her expressing her anger to casual friends, classmates, or total strangers. She usually gets along fine with them. Rather, her temper tantrums almost exclusively would be expressed against a close loved one (e.g., against you or her parents).
Third, you are convinced she truly loves you. But you often see her flipping, on a dime, between Jekyll (loving you) and Hyde (devaluing or hating you), often making you feel like you're walking on eggshells. Such flips would occur in a few seconds in response to some minor thing you say or do.
Ecaf, have you been seeing strong occurrences of these 3 red flags?
And he’s undermining her medical issue. ?
I agree with everyone else here. You should just move on and block her.
But if you are really curious and you must know and you must put yourself through more mental anguish, there might be a way to find out. There are some things you know about a person only when you have sex with them. For example, specific moles, or just general unique things you would only know about during your private time with your partner.
You could ask her open ended to describe him, and if she describes something she could know only through having sex with him, then you have your answer.
But I highly encourage you to move on, as it is not worth it. Just offering other advice in case you really want to know against better judgment.
Sounds to me like he’s looking for excuses to never propose to you (other than dating for 8 years without doing so).
He sounds like a complete asshole. You are not in the wrong, he is.
she hasn't realized she is wrong. She's using a lot of inappropriate labels to make him out to be the bad guy.
HE can heal and change, when he gets away from the people who hurt him.
They'll all continue to be the same jerks they have always been.