I feel like she is stringing you along maybe.. She could just be telling you the guy is mean to her and whatever else she said. Idk sounds similar to stuff I might have said in my early 20s to my ex…
It's the 21st century, how much money is she earning ? Sorry dude but your partner sounds like trash, she continually belittles you for not earning enough, but claims to love you.?. Her behavior says otherwise. Tell her that she needs to take a hike and go look for one of those men that she admires so much. Look for someone that values you, and not what you can do for them
Personally I’m not miss sunshine when I get off of my 12 hour, 5am-6pm, shifts either. I wouldn’t be particularly happy that we had guests over without a heads up as well. Could you have been more polite? Sure. But I don’t blame you for wanting to just toss off your clothes and go lay down rather than play host to a guest.
Personally in your case I’d change the reason from how he looks to the lack of motivation as that way you get away with not coming across as shallow.
But, you do have to remember what you decide to do here. Because it is entirely likely that a future partner of yours will do the same thing to you, and you will then feel whatever your bf will go through, but unlike him, you don’t get to complain.
Exactly, this is no longer Tony's problem, thanks to Mary this is now everyone's problem, and your friends would want to know the truth.
I feel like she is stringing you along maybe.. She could just be telling you the guy is mean to her and whatever else she said. Idk sounds similar to stuff I might have said in my early 20s to my ex…
It's the 21st century, how much money is she earning ? Sorry dude but your partner sounds like trash, she continually belittles you for not earning enough, but claims to love you.?. Her behavior says otherwise. Tell her that she needs to take a hike and go look for one of those men that she admires so much. Look for someone that values you, and not what you can do for them
Personally I’m not miss sunshine when I get off of my 12 hour, 5am-6pm, shifts either. I wouldn’t be particularly happy that we had guests over without a heads up as well. Could you have been more polite? Sure. But I don’t blame you for wanting to just toss off your clothes and go lay down rather than play host to a guest.
You can leave for any reason.
Personally in your case I’d change the reason from how he looks to the lack of motivation as that way you get away with not coming across as shallow.
But, you do have to remember what you decide to do here. Because it is entirely likely that a future partner of yours will do the same thing to you, and you will then feel whatever your bf will go through, but unlike him, you don’t get to complain.
Honey, he ain’t ya boyfriend. This is just your roommate who’s sleeping around.
Yes it is, tell me where I’m wrong?