Honestly, I think it was a reasonable assumption to make. This is why I try to tell my partner everything, even stupid little things like that. Because you never know what's going to spark something or cause a miscommunication. She didn't tell you about the friend leaving the phone with her on accident, so what were you supposed to think finding a random phone you've never seen with texts from a dude on it? And while you were wrong to jump to a conclusion like that without asking her first I think a lot of people would have made the same assumption. Especially with how easy it is for people to cheat nowadays.
She has a right to be mad, but this whole situation could have been avoided with a “hey ____ left her phone with me on accident it's charging in the bathroom.” So she's not blameless here either.
I know this isn't what you want to hear, but for the sake of your child it's time to go. Find a therapist, work through your issues, stay single for a bit and focus on you and your son. You both deserve better.
Who cares?
Did you sent any explicit pics or videos was you were 18?
And what’s the male form of birth control? I mean the one that works as a spermicide and alters your hormones.
She probably wants you to protect her. Call him out.
Honestly, I think it was a reasonable assumption to make. This is why I try to tell my partner everything, even stupid little things like that. Because you never know what's going to spark something or cause a miscommunication. She didn't tell you about the friend leaving the phone with her on accident, so what were you supposed to think finding a random phone you've never seen with texts from a dude on it? And while you were wrong to jump to a conclusion like that without asking her first I think a lot of people would have made the same assumption. Especially with how easy it is for people to cheat nowadays.
She has a right to be mad, but this whole situation could have been avoided with a “hey ____ left her phone with me on accident it's charging in the bathroom.” So she's not blameless here either.
I know this isn't what you want to hear, but for the sake of your child it's time to go. Find a therapist, work through your issues, stay single for a bit and focus on you and your son. You both deserve better.