She's pressuring you into a situation that you're not comfortable with.
And she CHEATED on you! Had you been the one to send nudes, sexy texts and secretly arrange sex meetings with a male “friend” of yours, I guarantee that she wouldn't be as “understanding” as you're being.
And the progression of things? 1. Has to be her and her “friend” alone for the first time. 2. Ok we can all 3 be together the first time. 3. Well now her husband has to attend as well.
Either way, she's definitely planning for one of you to get rammed by that man.
Is your sanity and self worth, worth sacrificing over the vague promise of a more active sex life?
I am SO tired of these posts/comments. “My husband is great despite this one AWFUL thing that he does that makes me (and my son) feel wretched about ourselves.”
He doesn’t get to be an excellent father and husband “at times.” Obviously no one is their best 100% of the time. But he doesn’t get a pass because he’s sometimes on his A game.
If you convert and talk to her dad, you can actually have a good chance. One thing I can tell you is in this case, it is better if you go to the dad and say “hey i want to be with your daughter, lets talk” man to man. He will actually respect you and hear you. If you wait until he finds out from another source that you are seeing his daughter, he will be furious and believe me by then it will be too late to deal with him. Dont listen to her mum, go speak with his dad and try to reason with him. There isn’t any logical reason why he wouldn’t listen to you.
It’s not for a lack of trying I may say, she’s just very busy, school, work & tutoring etc. we do spend time together sometimes, just not in person to my dismay.
I know she likes me, I can’t say she’s one for outwardly showing it but she’s thoughtful. She once got me a book for my birthday a year in advance because she knew I had an interest in that area, all before we ever dated. As well she acts a lot less…reserved? When we, for example, play games together.
Not only that, but I know her well enough to know that if she have no feelings or if the feelings died out, that she would end the relationship. She’s the practical sort I suppose, though that may be the wrong descriptor
As for if she knows this is important to me…I’m not sure, I believe I mentioned it a long time ago that i was an affection person, but perhaps I did not reflect how important it was.
I know she doesn’t like PDA. & i can’t recall a moment we have had proper alone time. So I can’t say anything on that
I do however understand where you are coming from, perhaps the extra information may shed light in that area? Or further cement it heh
Nah that ain‘t it bud. Seems like you‘re a hater the way you‘re typing. Nothing I do is hateful. On the other hand you are hateful. Bye
Should’ve cleared things up a bit, I’m heterosexual and she’s bi
OP.
She's pressuring you into a situation that you're not comfortable with.
And she CHEATED on you! Had you been the one to send nudes, sexy texts and secretly arrange sex meetings with a male “friend” of yours, I guarantee that she wouldn't be as “understanding” as you're being.
And the progression of things? 1. Has to be her and her “friend” alone for the first time. 2. Ok we can all 3 be together the first time. 3. Well now her husband has to attend as well.
Either way, she's definitely planning for one of you to get rammed by that man.
Is your sanity and self worth, worth sacrificing over the vague promise of a more active sex life?
I am SO tired of these posts/comments. “My husband is great despite this one AWFUL thing that he does that makes me (and my son) feel wretched about ourselves.”
He doesn’t get to be an excellent father and husband “at times.” Obviously no one is their best 100% of the time. But he doesn’t get a pass because he’s sometimes on his A game.
Why's it sound like you're defending looking and liking photos of kids?
???RUN
If you convert and talk to her dad, you can actually have a good chance. One thing I can tell you is in this case, it is better if you go to the dad and say “hey i want to be with your daughter, lets talk” man to man. He will actually respect you and hear you. If you wait until he finds out from another source that you are seeing his daughter, he will be furious and believe me by then it will be too late to deal with him. Dont listen to her mum, go speak with his dad and try to reason with him. There isn’t any logical reason why he wouldn’t listen to you.
This post is so cringe. I am not gonna ask my bf for where I stand pussy taste wise.
Wanting to share adventures with your children is lovely, I think one of the greatest things we can give to our kids, is our time.
I hope she does her research and decides she wants them. Good luck with everything.
It’s not for a lack of trying I may say, she’s just very busy, school, work & tutoring etc. we do spend time together sometimes, just not in person to my dismay.
I know she likes me, I can’t say she’s one for outwardly showing it but she’s thoughtful. She once got me a book for my birthday a year in advance because she knew I had an interest in that area, all before we ever dated. As well she acts a lot less…reserved? When we, for example, play games together.
Not only that, but I know her well enough to know that if she have no feelings or if the feelings died out, that she would end the relationship. She’s the practical sort I suppose, though that may be the wrong descriptor
As for if she knows this is important to me…I’m not sure, I believe I mentioned it a long time ago that i was an affection person, but perhaps I did not reflect how important it was.
I know she doesn’t like PDA. & i can’t recall a moment we have had proper alone time. So I can’t say anything on that
I do however understand where you are coming from, perhaps the extra information may shed light in that area? Or further cement it heh