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Leave. He will do it again and it's going to get worse.
Don’t date people that can’t legally buy firearms. It takes a lot to lose that privilege.
Why has the internet made people think anything goes, all the time, and boundaries are bad? If it was 1995 and he had photos of lingerie models in his wallet, does that give this clearer context?
When someone breaks a boundary there needs to be a consequence or they would never take your boundaries seriously again.
If I were in your situation now, his consequence would be to cut her out of his life completely. It’s the consequence for breaking up my boundary of “Do Not Sleep In The Same Bed With Her”. If he’s not able to do that then I’d break up.
One of you is going to be unhappy. I can't sleep with the tv on either. I need a dark quiet room. I don't know how you are going to resolve this issue. For some reason she wants to watch tv in bed and not in the living room. I don't have a tv in my bedroom because I don't watch tv there. Good luck.
It's perfectly okay to feel uncomfortable with certain behaviours, but it's not okay to make your girlfriend feel like she's doing something wrong when she's not.
As hard as it might be to hear, you need to work on managing your own insecurities and trusting your girlfriend's love and commitment to you.
Perhaps talking to a therapist, or trusted friend/family member about your feelings could be helpful in processing and addressing these insecurities.
First off, you need to stop playing the role of jealous boyfriend. It’s what started this ball rolling. It’s also so old and overdone- Just stop it. You only look insecure when you act like this. She is a grown woman who is allowed to talk to whoever she wants, she is not your property. When she agreed to start a relationship with you, she did not sign a contract stating that from here on out, there will be no conversing with the opposite sex. People talk to each other, get over it.
It was wrong to get physical and shove you but you now saying you feel anxiety around her like you’re a battered boyfriend who was attacked seems a little extreme. She apologized. She feels guilt for that. It was the heat of the moment but you holding onto being the victim for hours or days later in all of this is just you being manipulative by pouring the heat onto her. Your way of being angry and punishing her is by holding this over her head.
Throughout all of this you continually ignore your jealousy towards her talking to a random person and that you deserve all the apologies now. You need to be correcting your behavior too. It’s never okay to regulate who your partner can and can’t talk to. Part of loving someone means trusting them to make good decisions about the company they keep. You can vocalize your concerns in a loving, honest way, but then you must trust your partner’s judgment. If one of you can’t trust the other, it may be time to move on.
There are plenty of people your age who don't cheat. You've had some bad luck, that doesn't mean you have to settle for someone who treats you this way.
Never make a guy your whole world. Do not revolve your life around him. Get more active with your friends and hobbies. Chances are, this relationship won't last forever. You need to be okay without him. You are clinging too nude to this relationship.
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My boyfriend is away on vacation in his home country half way around the world, his original vacation was feb 18th to April 4th. I’m already struggling with him being gone. Two days ago he told me he was extending the trip a month, while helping him book his ticket I find out he’s actually staying two months more, coming home in June. Then today he tells me he might actually just move there.
Of course I’m supportive but i feel so abandoned and betrayed. I don’t know an appropriate response. It feels like my whole world is being crushed, like there a voice inside of screaming what about me? why did you do all this to throw it away? But the bigger voice is telling me how selfish that is, that I want him to be happy. And I do, but now I just feel like I wasted a year of both our lives
Ew, another humorless npc.
What's gross is not realizing that much can be lost with anything at any moment in life. Cherish it with the right people, not those who through a fit over everything.
I can certainly understand disappointment if he’s not working at all. I didn’t get that from the OP.
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Nah you right