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Fairy Yuki, 28 y.o.
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Date: October 6, 2022
Fairy Yuki, 28 y.o.
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He was actually seeing someone already at the time
OP, you're letting him act like this is an argument. You don't need his permission to stop talking to him…just do it. He doesn't have any power to stop you, so why are you letting him?
Look… you're either broken up, or you're not.
If you're broken up, it is all about you. That's the entire point, he's out of the picture.
If you're not, then why not just go ahead and move back in together? Else this is just some weird game.
Don’t move in with randoms. It makes life a lot more difficult. You didn’t know him when you moved in, now you do. Take time to get to really know someone next time. It is so worth it. Best of luck, this can be a powerful learning experience for you.
I am also asian (chinese-american) and in a relationship with an american man with a similar timeline as you two but without living with each other (working on that). I can understand the cultural differences and life styles.
HOWEVER. relationships can work if there is an attempt to try. For example, yes, theres a language barrier between you andher family. Thats a given because youre japanese-canadian. But, ive seen it happen in my own relationship that both sides try to cater to each other by my family speaking more in english/making an effort to learn a few words here and there and my BF asking me for context and trying to respond with words I teach him.
Your crossroads is for HER to decide. She needs to decide what she wants more. Its her decision to make and you should not beg anyone for attention.
And about the whole “earning money is important to her”. Thats not just an east asian thing. Earning money is important to anyone as it is what sets up yourself, your partner and your potential family with a safety net.
I dont think youre being blindsided at all! I think as a relationship progresses, we pass the honeymoon stage and are at the part where its time to talk about the future.
Good luck!
Once the garbage is at the curb, you leave it there.
Why would you drag it back into your house?
She had a NIGHTMARE about her ex, and you think it's because
A) she wants closure B) She's unfulfilled C) You aren't supporting her. And D) Bonus Google Answer she is in love with him.
You are correct. The answer is C.
She had a nightmare, and instead of being concerned and making sure she felt okay.
You centered on who it might be about when you didn't know before. And then threw passive aggressiveness at her later because she didn't feel comfortable telling you.
Tell her all the things she'd be required to give up if she converts to Islam, that should keep her away.