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He's being extremely unreasonable. He should be helping to nurse you back to health. Instead He's complaining about sex. You're not his personal masterbation device. If his sense of self of worth is this tied up in the amount of sex he has, he has bigger issues than being majorly inconsiderate of your health and general well being. Tell unless He's gonna help you get better he needs to leave you hell alone about sex.
I actually have these little circular lights on the floor of my room I can turn off and on with a remote so that’s actually such a great idea to put it everywhere else which I haven’t thought of. As long as I can see a bit of my surroundings I’m fine so this is perfect thank you!
I view it very fake as well and occasionally actually do enjoy the small talks or updates sometimes so it’s not a big deal for me to do that at least. I don’t actually care or want to have any sort of relationship with them beyond that. I guess I am overthinking it because my mom keeps telling me to do certain things to befriend them or get a good reputation so it does get into my head. My boyfriend’s mom also talks up her game when it comes to dealing with neighbors, so I just assumed this was a norm here as well. I think reputation means a lot to them both so I guess I’ll just ignore it and move on with my life because I don’t care to do that. Thank you this is so much help!
It sounds like your partner stays connected to his ex for the sake of the kids, which is definitely a positive. It also sounds like he includes you in family social events, which can be a positive as well for blended families.
That said, everyone has different ideas about how much togetherness with ex-partners works in a relationship. I think its ok for you to recognize that you dont have much in common with his ex and prefer to keep contact to a minimum. As long as you are keeping things civil and not sharing your negative opinions of her with the kids, I would say you are doing the right things as a parent. You dont have to be her best friend.
Definitely, talk this out with your partner, set some boundaries for yourself based on comfort level, and that you expect him to back you if she is making remarks about you that impact your ability to operate on a “civilized front”.
On this note, you can call the police yourself and tell them in advance that you are going out of town and your parents might call to file a missing persons report/kidnapping/whatever and that you are most certainly doing this on your own free will and to not do anything about it. You’re an adult, they (your parents) can’t insist they do something unless they have proof you’re in danger.
It can work. First, she has to deal with her current relationship. Then give it a little time for her to get past it. Then you two can start over. Remember that you are starting a new relationship. You have the advantage of your history, but don’t try to pick up where you left off.
If you have a method of contacting her online (texting is especially good), then I'd say that would be the best route. It isn't creepy IF you are someone who can communicate in an easy going and natural way in text.
Making a sign or a note may come off as a little intimidating, as that takes a step up in effort than just texting and may come off as a bit much.
If she knows you have selective mutism, then a note may not be a bad choice, but if she knows almost nothing about you, then you may be better off going the texting route.
My ex cheated on me a few times (I know don’t ask) and after the first time I felt nothing. It stopped bothering me. Like yeah sure I was angry but it didn’t hurt as much as the first time in fact I didn’t cry either.
I realize now that that’s because after the first time he cheated the relationship became a shell of itself and there was no salvaging it (no matter how much the younger version of me tried).
Don’t be scared that you’re feeling this way. Be happy that your emotions and brain and saving you from more heartbreak early on. Cut your losses and move on.
I wish you all the best; and please please please just because you’re feeling less hurt and anger, don’t get back with him- because it will seem easier.
INFO: did your wife know what time you were meeting your daughter? Think about this, dude. Once again you prioritized the wrong head.
Stop with the victim tropes. You caused this. You did this. You earned this.
Your lack of empathy and casual cruelty toward your daughter makes me question if you’re a sociopath. No matter what the diagnosis, your actions have shown you to be unlovable and childless.
Enjoy your future of inevitable loneliness. You deserve it.
He's being extremely unreasonable. He should be helping to nurse you back to health. Instead He's complaining about sex. You're not his personal masterbation device. If his sense of self of worth is this tied up in the amount of sex he has, he has bigger issues than being majorly inconsiderate of your health and general well being. Tell unless He's gonna help you get better he needs to leave you hell alone about sex.
Grow up.
That'll backfire majorly.
I actually have these little circular lights on the floor of my room I can turn off and on with a remote so that’s actually such a great idea to put it everywhere else which I haven’t thought of. As long as I can see a bit of my surroundings I’m fine so this is perfect thank you!
I view it very fake as well and occasionally actually do enjoy the small talks or updates sometimes so it’s not a big deal for me to do that at least. I don’t actually care or want to have any sort of relationship with them beyond that. I guess I am overthinking it because my mom keeps telling me to do certain things to befriend them or get a good reputation so it does get into my head. My boyfriend’s mom also talks up her game when it comes to dealing with neighbors, so I just assumed this was a norm here as well. I think reputation means a lot to them both so I guess I’ll just ignore it and move on with my life because I don’t care to do that. Thank you this is so much help!
I have never been in a relationship in which I have had to make that choice. Can you give some more details or some examples?
It sounds like your partner stays connected to his ex for the sake of the kids, which is definitely a positive. It also sounds like he includes you in family social events, which can be a positive as well for blended families.
That said, everyone has different ideas about how much togetherness with ex-partners works in a relationship. I think its ok for you to recognize that you dont have much in common with his ex and prefer to keep contact to a minimum. As long as you are keeping things civil and not sharing your negative opinions of her with the kids, I would say you are doing the right things as a parent. You dont have to be her best friend.
Definitely, talk this out with your partner, set some boundaries for yourself based on comfort level, and that you expect him to back you if she is making remarks about you that impact your ability to operate on a “civilized front”.
On this note, you can call the police yourself and tell them in advance that you are going out of town and your parents might call to file a missing persons report/kidnapping/whatever and that you are most certainly doing this on your own free will and to not do anything about it. You’re an adult, they (your parents) can’t insist they do something unless they have proof you’re in danger.
I think it's cruel to date someone you aren't physically attracted to. No one deserves that.
Not much you can prove bud and confronting over that isn't going to go well for you. So either dig more and catch her or you just need to breakup.
“Listen we are not in a good place and I feel like you are cheating on me so this is done have a good life.”
It can work. First, she has to deal with her current relationship. Then give it a little time for her to get past it. Then you two can start over. Remember that you are starting a new relationship. You have the advantage of your history, but don’t try to pick up where you left off.
Yelling loudly with a random person is cause for alarm, especially after a different incident. I'd set some rules also, not just for your safety.
I have recently been going through a rough patch romantically and had been having a bit of a run of one night stands.
Imagine if men could do this. Just get depressed and have lots of random sex.
I dont believe this is a real post
If you have a method of contacting her online (texting is especially good), then I'd say that would be the best route. It isn't creepy IF you are someone who can communicate in an easy going and natural way in text.
Making a sign or a note may come off as a little intimidating, as that takes a step up in effort than just texting and may come off as a bit much.
If she knows you have selective mutism, then a note may not be a bad choice, but if she knows almost nothing about you, then you may be better off going the texting route.
My ex cheated on me a few times (I know don’t ask) and after the first time I felt nothing. It stopped bothering me. Like yeah sure I was angry but it didn’t hurt as much as the first time in fact I didn’t cry either.
I realize now that that’s because after the first time he cheated the relationship became a shell of itself and there was no salvaging it (no matter how much the younger version of me tried).
Don’t be scared that you’re feeling this way. Be happy that your emotions and brain and saving you from more heartbreak early on. Cut your losses and move on.
I wish you all the best; and please please please just because you’re feeling less hurt and anger, don’t get back with him- because it will seem easier.
INFO: did your wife know what time you were meeting your daughter? Think about this, dude. Once again you prioritized the wrong head.
Stop with the victim tropes. You caused this. You did this. You earned this.
Your lack of empathy and casual cruelty toward your daughter makes me question if you’re a sociopath. No matter what the diagnosis, your actions have shown you to be unlovable and childless.
Enjoy your future of inevitable loneliness. You deserve it.
Then don't. You are your own boss.
Yes, it is over.
Who cares if he feels differently about it being a woman?