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I get you girls point, of course it is better let our bodies with its natural cycle, but like one of you said, it's not the same as being poisoned. Maybe OP's girlfriend should have other non hormonale method like IUD if she feels worried about pills.
🤠 relationship is like a school,till you find your soul-mate it can't be balanced
Some people have to learn the hard way… Encourage an extra long engagement.
Lmao yes to this answer
It's a good thing you will never have children with this woman!
What was the gesture you were trying to make that didn’t apply to your gf?
First off, tell your mom! He is trying to “divide and conquer”. You keeping it from her only plays into his plans.
Telling you to not act like family IN YOUR MOTHERS HOUSE? Gtfo. Yes it's his house too but you are all family.
I think you're right in that he isn't used to being challenged and didn't like it (unless your mom has drinking issues you don't know about).
However you kept checking with him and went above and beyond to make sure all was well. He sounds very immature.
You should be the one considering break up,. because he sounds is a terrible boyfriend
I just had my wife read this post because I had come out to her as bisexual and I asked her if she had anything to say to you because of this post and she said “ trust your husband”.
Wow. Or. Alternative theory. She figured out that you define yourself by your net worth and runs because that, my friend, is an enormous red flag.
I'm not clingy. I'm just in a lot of pain. I'm going to therapy and he's a loner to the extreme. He doesn't really talk or have a lot of genuine conversation. I am a loner myself, I just want to be around the guy I date at least once a week or once every two weeks.
They want you to be interested and join.
What do you want is the important question
OMG betrayed by someone you are in a relationship with is bad enough…. but your mother's betrayal takes this to a whole new level. YES< he is a sick person and you need to stay away from him. There is nothing left to salvage. He sexted with your MOM! Not some stranger. Your mother! He is not the kind, decent person he pretended to be with you. He is a manipulative con-artist who pulled the wool over your eyes. Please cut him off. Tell him to leave you the hell alone and then block him at every turn. Take comfort in your friends and other family members. As far as forgiving your mom goes, maybe.... in time, and with a lot of therapy (both you AND her). She is clearly a very, very messed up person if she thought sexting and camming with her daughter's boyfriend was an ok thing to do. So forgiving will be one thing, letting go of the negative feelings will be good for you to work towards... but I would suggest never trusting her ever again and keeping her at arms length as she is likely to continue to disappoint you. Seriously, I think that I am just losing faith in humanity today.
You should stand your ground on this one. This trip was supposed to be about your family getting together for the first time in years. She shouldn't be trying to make it into something else by adding her mother to the mix. If you've explained how important this reunion/time with your children is to you and your family and she can't understand that or support it… That's not okay from your partner.
She's using you and you can't get over someone while being a major part of their lives. Maybe the bumble guy can be her on-call therapist and that's what she can post on social media to hurt you
I think it's normal to be in this situation after a break up of a serious relationship. I was in a bad spot for a pretty long while during mine.
But you have to take care of yourself so when you do move on, you won't be stuck with decisions you regret making while feeling down. Nostalgia can be pretty scary when it hits.
And you’re still with her??
Ugh, thank you for this. I have a slight tear in my eye lol. I think that's part of it for me too, sadness and worry that he may never find happiness or be happy with out me. I want nothing but that for him.
Okay, this kind of thing is what I was alluding too in asking about other issues. Somebody that torn up by the one that got away is often a narc or sociopath and bringing it up as a method of controlling the other person. OP, take this as a gift. Spin it as him breaking up with you and you not being good enough for him and leave. This way he may just let you go without violence. Call family and friends and domestic violence resources for help getting out safely though. There are resources pinned at the top of r/relationship advice
Stay out of it. Nothing positive can come from you meeting her for a talk.
Perhaps you should be talking to your bf and asking why he stays in a situation as an adult where he is treated like a child.
Exactly! And I find that youth/young adult fantasy stories have pretty strong plots and are interesting/entertaining whereas once you cross into adult territory it’s skin over story and that sucks.
It would be BOTH of y'all's children so quit that bullshit “mother of MY children” mindset. Perhaps she hasn't decided if you're good enough to be the father of hers. How would you feel if she told you that? Are you looking for someone to raise a family with, or are you just looking for someone who will 'give you' kids? If you really want to talk about family planning, talk to her not reddit.
Adding to the list for when I win the lottery
I thought he was gay, as OP mentions that the toxic friend tried to make another friend’s destination wedding “about him and his husband”.
You need to get help. Find a therapist. You should go to some Al-Anon meetings as well.
Clearly you have PTSD as well.
I think though that the important thing is how your gf react to this. If she is ready to be supportive then you might be in a good place.
I think the important thing is that her drinking is a trigger for you not for her. Right now you connect drinking with hurt. Her drinking is not triggering her to to do anything wrong.
Personally I think you need to work on your reactions. Go out again together – where you are clear she will have 2-3 drinks – and then you return home with the aim – not to have sex but cuddle. Connect her drinking with something positive. Replace your current reaction with something positive. If you do this regularly – you will have some normal dates (which is nice) but also work on your reactions.
If you can not deal with this – after testing your reactions, Al-Anon and therapy then you have some serious underlying issues.
Still be aware what is going on. Do not stop having sex (focus on long relaxed session with oral)- that will just add to your problems. Get viagra to help – the main point is not to allow your triggers to dominate your behaviour.
Crossing fingers. Have experienced something similar and waited too long before acting.
It seems very obvious to me that he's intentionally setting himself up to break his phone so that he can use yours and go through it to check for signs of cheating, but regardless, you can tell him no. Your phone is yours. If he refuses to do absolutely anything to keep his phone from breaking, then he can figure out his own solution. If he tries to guilt you about how partners help each other, tell him that cuts both ways and he is majorly inconveniencing you regularly because he won't do anything to protect his phone.
I would also take your phone to the Apple store or similar and get it checked for spyware.
Dump him and tell him that you will fila charges for sexual assault to make sure the pictures gets deleted from his phone and anywhere they couod possibly be saved! Ive been with my wife for 10 years and married for 5 and i still ask for permission to record anything sexual we are doing and for nudes. Only predators thinks the way ya bf does
OP’s younger sister is 20